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Hi there. I'm submissive by nature, though can be dominant at my job. I'm a Switch.

Hmm, not sure what to write here.

I'm looking for a very long term relationship. Please don't contact me if you're married, engaged, dating, have a significant other, etc., etc., etc.
I am looking for a Dominant between the ages of 35-60.

I'm willing to try just about anything at least once.
I do smoke but not that much. I don't like smoking as it's bad for your health. It also stinks to high heaven. I have no problem with a man smoking, though I WOULD prefer it if it was done inside, to be near a window, on a deck, or something. I personally don't smoke in the house. I don't tell others what to do in their own homes.

Having said that much, I should add that I like the smell of a good pipe tobacco, and have been known to hold a cigar in my mouth and pretend to smoke it. LOL

AND having said that, I also like non-smokers. No stinky clothes or hair. Maybe they could help me to quit??

So, in the end, I'm just plain easy. LOL

I have had one D/s relationship. Oh, there were good, even great, times. The trust started waning until I had to leave. It broke my heart, but is for the best, for both of us.

Oh, and a friend told me I should ask all who contact me if BDSM is all about sex for them. So, if you contact me, please let me know your viewpoint.
2/14/2008 8:39:55 AM
Ok. fyi - I'm starting initial conversations with a couple of Doms from this site. I feel a bit stronger for some than others.  All that I do more than an 'Thank you for thinking of me', I've got some sort of interest in.

I am upfront and openly honest.  Ask if you are unsure of anything I have ever said.  I will do my best to clairify for you.
2/12/2008 8:43:51 AM
I went on a 'vanilla' date last night with a really nice, sudo-snoring, but nice enough man who DEFINATELY is not dominant.

It's so hard to find the right mix of 'over-the-top' kinky domination, and 'vanilla' kinky domination.

What are you to say or do to find out just how they are in a real life situation if people only put on their best 'show' for others.

Sure we all want to be shown at our best, but it's the 'worst' that we all really want and need to know about.  I'm probably 'overly honest' when it comes to communicating.  I don't want to waste anyone's time if they can't deal with the 'worst' of me.

I'm not concerned with the best of me, because I'm nice, funny, silly, interesting, intellegent, warm, loving and a bunch of other things.. just as most people are.. ok.. some people are.  LOL
1/31/2008 3:01:48 PM
Oh Happy DaZe..

i didn't think it was actually a possibility, but i have met someone on here who i feel a 'click', a chemistry, with.
i won't push, as this is TOO important to rush.
Time and time alone will be the testor of all feelings.  Time shall tell.

ok.. now put a YIPPEE at the end of that!  LOL
1/25/2008 12:52:26 PM
I was asked this by a Dom I'm chatting with.  So here it is:

The idea now is for you to add those answers to your profile...
And be specific to the smoking answer...
Would you be with a guy who wanted to smoke all the time in the house:)
Whether his main seat was near a window or not:)
 
I do smoke but not that much, though I don't like smoking as it's bad for your health, and it stinks to high heaven.  I have no problem with a man smoking, though I WOULD prefer it if it was done near a window, or on a deck, or something.  I personally don't smoke in the house, though this is my preference.  I don't tell others what to do in their own homes.

Having said that much, I should add that I like the smell of a good pipe tobacco, and have been known to hold a cigar in my mouth and pretend to smoke it.  LOL

AND having said that, I also like non-smokers.  No stinky clothes or hair.

So, in the end, I'm just plain easy. LOL
DirtyLittleTaboo
 
 Age: 18
 NYC, New York