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Queer, polyamorous, POC, traveller migrant, ethical slut in the making.
Dubbed a 'sensual machine' by first lady lover, and for good reason - am highly into sensation play and sensuality in all its forms, especially touch and taste.
Art is my kink and creative sexytimes is what I seek out, through performing and producing work with a queer erotic, highly personal, often political edge, as well as being involved & interested in people that appreciate similar forms of erotic creativity.
Fetishes & Kinks: Interests and Limits
Interests & Curiosities: Mentor/protege dynamics, rockstar/groupie dynamics, queer women, sensation play, velvet, fur, food play/sploshing, endurance cunnilingus, art as kink, art as service, service, kitty play, redheads, music, feathers, exhibitionism, erotic performance, rope, rope suspension, candle wax, biting, scratching, breasts, adoration, Goddess worship, fangirls, queer porn, sacred sexuality, sex magick, aftercare, kissing, making out, cuddles, queer women's voices, queer sugar mamas, sparkles and glitter, ethnosexology, creativity, percussion play, bondage, female ejaculation, consent, polyamoury, courtesanship, student/teacher age play
Limits: Humiliation, stinging pain, needles, race play [or any sort of discrimination-related play], rape play/anything to do with nonconsent, scat, urine, bestiality, minors, degradation
on Sexytimes
I prefer women and gender minorities 99.99% of the time - the men I do like tend to be gay, but I am in a long-term relationship with my straight white male matey. He's not very kinky but not totally vanilla either; something more like vanilla-with-chocolate-chips (mostly my flavour).
Art is my kink. I want to be the canvas, the page, the screen - also the artist, the muse, the spectator. I have performance pieces that not only make great artistic statements but also give me a huge erotic rush; is that cheating? I got into porn recently mostly for more girlsexytimes and am hooked!
Music figures heavily into my sexuality; really enjoy sexual sensual deep dark music and the right songs can get me into the mood quick. I am an exhibitionist and love attention and adoration. I've been a fangirl (currently a major one of Darren Hayes, my only other exception to "no cis men"), I am a fangirl still, and I want fangirls of my own.
I am polyamourous and a queer slut in the making (San Francisco made that very easy). I am interested in more female companionship, from friends-with-benefits to girlfriends to long-term relationships, though I like things to evolve organically rather than forcing them into certain roles. I like people as people, first and foremost.
I'm really into mentor/protege dynamics: someone top in their field guiding a protege through it while also having them as their assistant/helper elf. Sexual tension that develops when the protege's attraction goes from wanting to betheir mentor to wanting their mentor. Professionalism set aside when the mentor makes use of their protege for sexual release, breaking boundaries for lust or power. An extension of teacher/student, more focused, more intense. Ooh boy.
I have a major thing for sensation play - especially feathers, velvet, food, breath, and scratching, but I'm open to anything. I love having my sense of touch engaged to overload. Oddly enough other forms of sensory overload (such as sound or sight) make me ill, but touch overload makes me a happy gooey mess. I do like being tied up and I would really like to try rope suspension. I also enjoy the feel of chains - holding them, on my skin, wherever.
I didn't think I'd like pain, mostly because past experiences have been largely in the so-so category and I figured I had a low pain tolerance, but apparently it's a lot higher than I think it is and I do enjoy the tingly endorphin rush after. Mostly I like testing my limits and the feeling of strength and confidence I get after being bashed up (and resting a while). I do really enjoy being scratched and bitten (om nom nom) and there is a particular part of my body where I actually love pain but hardly anyone's tried to inflict pain on it because it's usually the last place you want to do so. I'll leave you to discover where that is!
I have a thing for mouths and being eaten: I still want to set the record for longest time spent being eaten out (hell it can be a relay race); I enjoy biting, sucking, and kissing; I love having sweet toppings painted on and eaten off me. Human dessert! Yum.
I last a while, ride multiple orgasms like a pro surfer, like to test my endurance, and am quite the gusher.
Topwise
My matey and I are usually pretty egalitarian, but I really enjoy topping him when I get the chance. I love having him under my spell and he makes the best reactions. I think there might be an element of subtle female supremacy in there - but when you're usually the marginalised one, it can be quite a rush to have power over someone from the dominant group!
I have a bossy/dominant personality and would like to be a Domme (particularly of the Vagina Monologues or Rockstar variety) but am not sure how to be one. (I had a better idea as a youngin but that got drawn out from me. I miss my younger self.) I've been told by a few people that I'd make a great Domme mostly because I like to tell people what to do; however, my issue is that I have difficulty getting people to actually do what I tell them to!. The only way I know how is through anger and fear, because that's how I've seen it done growing up, but I'd rather be a Domme that commands respect and admiration - you want to serve me - rather than one that uses intimidation to get her way. Lessons and mentorship would be greatly appreciated.
Sub(t)ly Bottom
I am a total Pillow Princess - I greatly enjoy receiving sexual attention while I lie there luxuriating in pleasure. That said, I have a hard time conceiving of this as a "bottom" position because I feel very powerful: I have someone whose main focus is my pleasure servicing me! It's not "top" in terms of positions but it definitely is a very powerful role. I do reciprocate too, and enjoy it; I just enjoy receiving about a zillion times more ;)
I sub through service; I like to do things for people, always have. Hell being a personal assistant to someone awesome is one of my dream jobs! It's one of the ways I show my attention and devotion to people. I'm especially interested in artistic service - performing for someone, making creative gifts, that sort of thing. Using my skills for your interests. I don't like the feeling of taking up space and not being helpful; put me to good use! I'm not one for formalities - I work better with rockstar types, flexible and somewhat oddball in their requests but always with discretion.
As mentioned earlier while I'm not much of a pain slut I do like testing my limits, and if it makes the right person happy I'm willing to let them unleash their mayhem on me. So long as there's good aftercare after!
LOOKING FOR:
I would love to meet women and gender minorities (so not cis men) for anything between cuddlebuddies and sexyfriends to more involved open relationships, depending on how our energies flow. Ideally you would be:
* non-monogamous, or at least doesn't mind someone who is & would like to stay that way
* into a quirky, silly, random sense of humour - think sparkles and LOLcats
* open to exploring new experiences, sexually or otherwise
* comfortable with independence and time apart (since I often travel) but also appreciates regular contact and time together
* compassionate and kind
* open to being aware of intersectional politics (race, gender, sexuality, etc) rather than dismissing it off-hand as "political correctness"
* open with communication and honesty
* able to be discreet when required
* able to appreciate creative displays of affection
* passionate about something, whether a hobby or an issue or something else
* friendly and great to hang around with even outside a sexual context
I'm not terribly fussed over looks or types, though my big weaknesses are redheads and lanky androgynous rockstar types. I'd prefer people from around the age of 21 to 39, but I'm happy to look beyond that for the right people. I am usually based in the Brisbane, Australia area though I do travel from time to time. (If you want to pay for my travels, even better ;))
Dominance/submission [D/s] Dynamics
BDSM and D/s in particular is something I am quite new to but am very interested in exploring further. I would love to find people to play with to explore both sides of the dynamic, which I thus describe as the Rockstar Mentor and the Fangirl Protege:
Rockstar Mentor:
Imagine Joan Jett as a Domme and you have this in a nutshell. Creative, eccentric, and grooving in her sexuality, focused on her art but also aware of their power and pull over their younger fangirls, wanting to be more like their role model, taste that power and creative force any which way they can. Part muse, part mentor, part map, part magician. Someone like her inspires your instant submission because they are so damn awesome and being around them, being their right-hand girl at their beck and call, makes you feel awesome too. They are friendly and yet don't hesitate to call anyone out on their crap. They have swagger and their own sense of style. Being chosen as their minion, groupie, fangirl protege is a honour you would cherish forever.
Fangirl Protege:
Since I was a teenager I've always identified strongly with being a devoted fangirl - at the same time I dearly wanted to be famous and have some of that fangirl attention and adoration for myself. The Fangirl Protege is appreciative and in awe of the target of their affections, and enjoys spending time supporting and assisting them out. They are not insipid brainless sycophants; their intelligence and strength is what makes their service submission high grade and well-appreciated. They express their adoration openly and spread the word about their idol's pursuits, while also cheering and inspiring them on. Their pleasure comes from seeing the pleasure of the one they serve - and they are rewarded handsomely.
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LOOKING FOR:
I would love to meet women and gender minorities (so not cis men) for anything between cuddlebuddies and sexyfriends to more involved open relationships, depending on how our energies flow. Ideally you would be:
* non-monogamous, or at least doesn't mind someone who is & would like to stay that way
* into a quirky, silly, random sense of humour - think sparkles and LOLcats
* open to exploring new experiences, sexually or otherwise
* comfortable with independence and time apart (since I often travel) but also appreciates regular contact and time together
* compassionate and kind
* open to being aware of intersectional politics (race, gender, sexuality, etc) rather than dismissing it off-hand as "political correctness"
* open with communication and honesty
* able to be discreet when required
* able to appreciate creative displays of affection
* passionate about something, whether a hobby or an issue or something else
* friendly and great to hang around with even outside a sexual context
I'm not terribly fussed over looks or types, though my big weaknesses are redheads and lanky androgynous rockstar types. I'd prefer people from around the age of 21 to 39, but I'm happy to look beyond that for the right people. I am usually based in the Brisbane, Australia area though I do travel from time to time. (If you want to pay for my travels, even better ;))
Dominance/submission [D/s] Dynamics
BDSM and D/s in particular is something I am quite new to but am very interested in exploring further. I would love to find people to play with to explore both sides of the dynamic, which I thus describe as the Rockstar Mentor and the Fangirl Protege:
Rockstar Mentor:
Imagine Joan Jett as a Domme and you have this in a nutshell. Creative, eccentric, and grooving in her sexuality, focused on her art but also aware of their power and pull over their younger fangirls, wanting to be more like their role model, taste that power and creative force any which way they can. Part muse, part mentor, part map, part magician. Someone like her inspires your instant submission because they are so damn awesome and being around them, being their right-hand girl at their beck and call, makes you feel awesome too. They are friendly and yet don't hesitate to call anyone out on their crap. They have swagger and their own sense of style. Being chosen as their minion, groupie, fangirl protege is a honour you would cherish forever.
Fangirl Protege:
Since I was a teenager I've always identified strongly with being a devoted fangirl - at the same time I dearly wanted to be famous and have some of that fangirl attention and adoration for myself. The Fangirl Protege is appreciative and in awe of the target of their affections, and enjoys spending time supporting and assisting them out. They are not insipid brainless sycophants; their intelligence and strength is what makes their service submission high grade and well-appreciated. They express their adoration openly and spread the word about their idol's pursuits, while also cheering and inspiring them on. Their pleasure comes from seeing the pleasure of the one they serve - and they are rewarded handsomely. |
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| Age: 25 |
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