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I may be searching for an impossible match, but I am enjoying the search, even though it is frustrating. I have been curious about BDSM for many years without having much experience at all. I am not sure how long I will remain on this site. I am a self employed professional who works with the public in a small city in Northwestern Ontario, and I want to ensure that this aspect of my life, if anything at all happens, stays private. Being a beginner, I don't really know what to expect, but I have some clear ideas about what I am interested in and what I am not interested in. That might not work for some of you, that's ok. I think I'd like to meet someone who doesn't make this his entire life, because I don't really want it to be mine. I would really like to explore a few things though, and hope to find someone who has some experience and confidence in his skills. Directions and limits can be discussed later. UPDATE: I have recently spoken with a couple people who have experience, and I am even more interested now that I have some idea of how this might work. Though I am not looking to be someone's on-demand house keeper, I might be interested in a more in depth experience, long term, with the right man. Ideally He will be within the age range of 30-47, but assuming there are not a lot of people in my area on this site, I am willing to entertain the thought of an individual outside that range. He will be decently fit, clean and disease free. I am relatively tall, so I think he should be taller than I am, but its not something that is a deal breaker. I'm not really looking to switch, but I'd be willing to see how things go, should I meet the right partner and he is interested in that. If you have any questions, please feel free to ask. I will answer mail from those who have pictures included in their letters or profile only, as I have encountered some problems discussing very personal things with a faceless stranger, who turned out not to be a stranger after all. I have to be cautious, I hope that is acceptable. In the meantime, here is a description: 5'8", 180lbs, long reddish hair, brown eyes, large breasts. I am honest and real, always. I know who I am and what I want in life. I am adventurous and fun, with a very creative side and a great sense of humour. I'm not into real pain, just the promise of it, you know, "on the edge of pain", at most, and I believe I will enjoy a variety of experiences and sensations. It may take a little time for me to really get into this lifestyle; I am educated, intelligent and strong. This may make me a bit of a challenge - I'm not sure if that is appealing. I am not looking to be "abused". Its not about that for me. From what I've read, there are some people who are not into it for the cerebral game, which is one of the most appealing aspects that I have learned about thus far. My interest in this isn't arising from a pattern of need I have due to some past trauma. I'm just a bit kinky, I guess. I don't know what else might be important to say. I'm sure you have some ideas. Thanks for taking the time to read my profile.

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days10
 
 Age: 37
 Virginia Beach, Virginia