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| Who am I?
Whovian, trekkie, gamer, microbiologist, amateur programmer, and pagan.
I've been in the community for over 10 years, and am very active in the local Kinky and Geeky group and act as High Priest at pagan rituals I host at my house. I can also sometimes be found at the local TNG group (although I'll age out of that this year). I love board and card games (which is my primary mode of social interaction), and I'm a sci-fi nerd.
I'm an incredibly open person when in conversation. I don't lie well, so hiding things like religion/politics isn't happening.
My orientations:
I am sexually attracted to all sexes about equally. I'd say 40/30/30 favoring female identifying individuals, with non binary and men almost exactly the same. Romantically I'm significantly more attracted to women (that is to say, female identifying), with a ratio of about 80/15/5. It is for this reason I tend to state my orientation as "bisexual/heteroromantic". I don't quibble over the "pansexual/bisexual" debate, call me whatever you want.
My preferred relationship styles and self identity:
I've been practicing the poly lifestyle for quite a while now, but I don't consider myself poly by nature. My preferred relationship style is monogamish (strong primary bond allowing play with others on occasion, usually but not necessarily always together), but I could be just as happy in a triad or other stable poly relationship.
I'm a sub/switch, (about a 3 on a 1 to 10 scale, 10 being Dom). Check my BDSM test results in the journal section. Ideally I'm looking for a Domme, switch, or couple that leans Dom/me. I prefer not to practice Lifestyle, although I pretty much always want sex to be BDSM oriented.
Broad overview of some of my interests:
As a sub, I'm not much of a masochist, but I can take a fair amount of physical torture, if that's my Dom/me's pleasure. Sexual obedience is really what gets me into subspace, and the confident aura of my top. I'm a voyeur and exhibitionist. Other kinks include threesomes (and more), cuckold play, denial, degradation, and much more. Being treated like a thing to be played with, being called names, spat upon, slapped, and generally used for my Dom/me's amusement is pretty much the most arousing thing to me. Once I'm in subspace, I generally become very non verbal, but I'm always willing to use my safewords if things get too out of hand. The line, however, is probably farther than you think.
If I act as Dom, I'm a very hard sadist. I'm not much of a wax, fire, needle, rope, or other sensation top. I prefer to degrade, defile, bite, hit, humiliate, cut, threaten, and otherwise torture, both emotionally and physically. Common phrases include things like "worthless whore" and "community dumpster". I also like to extract tears.
Safety ideologies:
I like using the standard red/yellow safewords ("stop everything" and "hold up for right now, something needs addressing"), and I like to add a third option as well, meaning "pull back a bit but keep going." I will try to get this third safeword out of my play partners as a top though, especially when it comes to physical impact pain, as with that I like to try and go right up to the line. Please do not hesitate to use safewords. Doing so will never be held against you in any way, other than to help me, and hopefully you, deepen understanding of exactly where and what those lines are.
The Bottom Line:
If you got this far and are still interested, let's be friends!
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