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I came to CollarMe (now CollarSpace) 9 years ago and enjoy discovering the comforting feeling here that there are many more people out there even more kinky and perverted than I am. And I'm also discovering that this unique and diverse community is one fertile place where those rare women who are as slutty as I am, or more slutty, hang out. I'm meistercliff on Fetlife.
I teach at a university in Germany every few months and return to my NH lake Island where I write, fish, play and when so honored, teach and train young submissives to own and celebrate their sluthood and the unique feminine powers which flow from that diverse process.
I'm almost complete with a 25-year long gestation edgy psychological literary novel which actually reflects the FetLife alternative life style more accurately than 50 Shades of Grey did and mine is more literary and better written. Now all I want is a small percent of the 125 million readers who bought 50 Shades....I plan to launch it here (and on Fetlife as soon as I have the right publisher), where some wonderful, intelligent, fellow lifestyle members have served as my intelligent beta readers generously giving it their praise and endorsements and vulnerably honest critiques as I complete my final edits.
Some favorite specialities which I and lil subs who come to me enjoy enough to keep returning for more:
• One-on-one training in the finer erotic arts for young subs, slaves, and even novice Dommes on my island -- beginning with you exactly where you are in your own unique erotic journey, helping you to grow into a sex-positive being, leaving behind all the guilt, shame, and any victimization while emerging a proud victor instead of victim. Book ahead for weekends and 2-5 week day sessions mostly in May, June, Sept-Nov, and Feb-March (not on my island then, but other interesting arrangements can be made) when I'm not away teaching in Germany which I do every two months or so.
• Complete erotic two+hour multi-orgasmic medical exams -- given to women and sometimes couples. Love doing this on my island and I have lots of equipment from speculums, to caths, to electric stims, to sounds, clit stim tests, orgasmic response tests, enema equipment, and an extensive toy collection. All limits are respected. Many who experience this have five-ten or more orgasms during the procedures, a favorite of many.
• Pussy/clit/breast spankings: I begin with my girl in a pussy-exposed position, either bound, or for girls with great self-discipline, mental self-bondage with no ropes. I insert a butt plug with ample lube slowly to give her sphincter something to squeeze upon. I begin with the bare hand, then the flogger, and finish with a crop ... edging to several orgasms from my hands, fingers, lips, tongue and cock. Most want to return to re-experience this kinky perversion.
• Adult Nursing Relationships (ANR): I love the deeply shared intimacy of suckling at a tender woman's breasts and surrendering to how nursing crosses back and forth over the edge of eroticism. I enjoy prolonged, tender, vulnerable ANR, sharing with a woman who longs for a tender partner for this very special intimacy with added erotic bonuses. Vulnerability is the key to intimacy.
• Erotic hypnotism and guided imagery -- I have experience as a therapist using some tist work and have successfully helped women leave behind trauma and victimhood and become sex-positive winners who love, own and celebrate their own sluthood.
More about me and my sex-positive philosophy:
•I'm a happy polyamorous optimist from NH (5‘'8" 160 pounds, blue eyes, brown hair). Passion and laughter -- especially intimately shared with a kinky loving lil one -- helps keep me young.
•I'm a successful professor/author of 10 books on eclectic subjects.
•I'm a creative, intelligent man (Mensa and Intertel member), experienced and responsible as a sensitive, gentle "Daddy-Dom" or Master and mentor seeking part-time, but long-term, little girls to teach, love, to cherish, and sometimes discipline for their naughtiness.
•My imagination in the erotic realm is one of my most fertile creative aspects. Deep explorations of passion and taboo intimacy are my interests with the right "Daddy's naughty little girl."
•I travel to Germany three times a year, every 2 months to teach and am in Munich from Dec-Jan, March 15-April 30, and June 15- July 30.
• Once in a while, with the right intelligent partner, I've been known to switch, but the moon has to be just right.
I'm blessed and honored, as an older and sometimes, but not always, wiser man, by the attention and submission of lovely unique younger women -- mostly teleiophilias, who bestow upon me their precious gifts of their submission, intimacy, and love which I cherish and respect. I believe they need and find in us more mature lovers, what they cannot find among their young frat-boy peers: wisdom about life combined with a fierce love for women.
•My tumblr reflects many of my eclectic erotic fantasies and darker dreams ...which I'm quite successful in making come true in real life:
http://meistercliff.tumblr.com
• I'm meistercliff on Skype
•I have private photos, once we become friends, of me playing with some lovely lil muses with their permission and endorsement, with whom I have shared sweet erotic intimacies.
•I live on a beautiful Lake island and am a decade past a long overdue divorce.
I seek naughty, kinky-minded little girls who like to have quality and intensive visitations on my island with this loving "Daddy" who will respect you and take you over his knee, pull down your panties and spank your sweet bottom until your ass is red and your juices are running down your soft thighs... as foreplay for more. Daddy is a good teacher/mentor and wants to teach you the finer erotic arts. Your loving, but firm, Daddy will offer benefits of overnights and weekends of intimacy, passion, discipline, spankings, teachings, fun, fishing, skinny dipping, 420 heightened gourmet romantic candle-lit dining, celebrations of your sluthood, and, most important, I'll help you learn to risk vulnerably opening to intimacy and, perhaps, love.
•Most of my erotic play has been experienced over the past decades with young-at-heart women who long to explore their kinky submissive selves in a safe secret garden I create for them in which to learn and explore erotic age play -- the kind of skilled kinky intimacy they will not likely find with their testosterone-fueled age-peers. I have 4 decades of experience training submissives in the finer erotic arts....
•I experience age play as proloooonged roleplay and foreplay for deeper passions. (My limits are scat, blood, or harming another.) I am a discreet, responsible, safe, sane, consensual, romantic, STI-free, pleasure-lover who seeks other lil pleasure lovers who wish to become my part-time, but long-term naughty lil girls or muses. I am turned on by an intelligent independent girl motivated to complete her education who loves exploring her erotic passions with an experienced loving Daddy Dom who can teach her to reach new heights of passion while she learns to please her Daddy.
•I consider the gift of my little one's submission, a precious jewel to be cherished, nurtured, respected, celebrated....
•And here's a favorite foreplay I love giving to my lil sub when she longs to explore uninhibitedly the pleasure/pain threshold:
http://xhamster.com/movies/1370411/thank_you_for_sp…
And this: http://www.bdsmvilla.com/video/cunt-whipping-pussy-…
•And I agree with the wisdom in these words: How elegant it is when the person who owns you says, "You are mine. And as my property -- the most precious property I could possibly be pleased to own-- your first job is to maintain my property. To be transparent with me, to tell me honestly how you are, to share with me when you are struggling: this is how you please me. And furthermore, NOT telling me if you are troubled or struggling is in direct conflict with my wishes.”
•I believe that our minds are our most erotic organs, as awesome as the delight-giving differences between our male and female genitals happen to be. I will take you whereever you are, in your own unique erotic journey, and gently help you expand your limits from there.
I'm now finishing a long gestation complex, edgy psychological literary erotica with many roots in the lifestyle communities. Though I feel 50 Shades of Grey has helped prepare its phenomenal 125 million readers for more realistic and more quality literary erotica, which my novel will offer, I agree with this assessment of 50 Shades of Grey and that it's nonconsenual portrayal of BDSM, misleads novice players.
•I believe that vulnerability is the key to intimacy. And intimacy is one of the keys to love. And while speaking about love, it's the context for the rest of my life -- love of my family, friends, play partners, love of nature, the lake I live on, the fish I catch from it, and most important, love for myself without which I'm limited in my ability to love others.
•We need not worry about running out of love, as it's all around us. Some people think they need to put their love into a "bank" to save it up for only the "perfect person" ...who may never come. None of us are perfect and it is our imperfections which define our humanity.
One of the magical things about love is that the more of it I give, the more I have to give. We never run out of love. And Tennyson was right: "'...tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all." Love is so worth the risks, even if it may fail. I seek a lil girl who has the courage to risk with me opening her heart, mind, and body to love ...no matter how hurt she may have been in the past. This is her new future and being a victim of our past never works like being a victor now. It is very important to run out of scapegoats.
•As a former practicing Gestalt-Rogerian psychotherapist, I have some experience in erotic hypo skills and using the power of guided fantasies and trance to help free my partner from whatever holds her back from surrendering to her passions.
•Though I'm in Germany working half the year teaching, I yearn to explore my more kinky poly side in a long-term, part-time relationship with the right lil one, during my more lonely months back in the US. Perhaps she will be my erotic muse for the long edgy novel I'm writing.
•What does being a Daddy mean to me? Daddy means love, strength, empathy, comfort, a mentor, and a sensitive teacher of many things including the erotic arts. A Daddy loves with all he has and in return is loved with the same intensity. A Daddy is a best friend and confidant with empathy. He's someone who accepts you as you are, and who will inspire you to be your best self. He inspires with words and example. A Daddy means the world to his little girl and she is his world as well and that bond created is incredibly strong. This captures what I feel is one of my strengths:
"I would say my biggest fetish - is the mind of a woman which I love to explore, to stimulate, to excite.
The power that I feel from knowing she feels that tingle - that spark - that heat from the start of a chat gives me the feeling i crave most. I want more intimacy …
When and if she feels hunger and craves more - of course want to feed that hunger. which in turn - feeds mine..
If she has the feeling of a wet mouth - pounding heart - wet panties when we connect - all the better.
I love to find out what makes those things happen and then of course to make them happen.
I LOVE the softness of sweet breasts - of hard nipples - contrast of soft to hard, dry to wet - all of it - with a real body and fine mind - one that has places to suck, nibble, bite - places to leave my mark and to know a reaction has happened.
We are all here for a reason - lets explore and find out what they are and how they can be 'attended' to.
In a nutshell this is me - and what I seek here ... more to come ... I'm sure."
•In the Myers-Briggs Jungian personality Inventory, I'm an ENFP: ENFP = Extraverted - iNtuitive - Feeling - Perceiving. I've taken it over 8 times in 20 years and it's always reliably the same.
•Daddy-lil girl roleplay is an inspiring erotic journey for me. I like to share quality time and visitations with the right little "girl" as her mentor and as a serious age-play adventure and erotic experiment .... Are you that adventurous passionate little girl who seeks a part time, responsible, but long term, loving "Daddy Dom?" Do you want an adventure being my lil muse during your spring or summer break? If so contact me! I'm also 420 friendly.
•And though I'm not looking for brats, I am up for a naughty lil girl who likes to switch to be in charge of her Daddy, from time to time, wrapping him around her lil finger as she learns about the erotic powers she holds over him to do to her all the kinky things she has ever fantasized:
http://dominantguide.com/1791/i-flag-adorable-on-be…
Warmest wishes,
Daddy Dom Hal
PS: A letter to all who enter my life:
•The gift of a day or night in our lives is a precious unique gift to give to another, There's never another one exactly like it.
And again, don't forget this truth: that it is very important to run out of scapegoats!
Kisses from
Daddy Dom Hal
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