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I'm a native of San Diego (Mission/Pacific Beach), but currently living in Lexington, KY. Because of our perspectives/politics my partner and I (three years: my partner is currently studying in France and will be back in January) recently decided that we were Poly. I have to be honest and say that here in KY I feel a bit alien in that the cultures are very different. I am very into D/s, role playing, and other imaginative erotic/sexual exchanges. My worldviews are firmly anarchist, socialist, polyamorous, and atheist (that rejects dogma and controlling ideologies)... I am playful, curious, and eclectic. I'm a very situational person, sometimes I'm vibrant and in the center of things, sometimes I am intensely involved in building community, sometimes I am observant and along the margins--I like to allow for different possibilities. My personality is fueled by intellectual/erotic curiosity, political activism and empathy for others. The mind is often a neglected sexual organ and I like to stimulate it through my play. I have the good fortune to live in a central place and walk a lot, weather permitting. I generally work out and hike as time permits. I'm fit, but not super fit (I know I'm not, because when I was a roofer and a surfer in San Diego I was measured at 4% body fat). I expect my partners to care about their bodies and be in reasonable shape, but I am no fitness fanatic. I don't mind bars, but it is not my preferred place to meet new people. It is more a place to hang with friends, grab a pint, and talk passionately about things/world. I prefer not to party excessively when I'm sexually involved, although I'm not opposed to something to set the mood and or relax us. I prefer to take the lead in the bedroom, but at the same time I appreciate partners who have inspiration of their own and/or might want to take the reins from time to time. I love sex and/or role playing. I have a partner, so I'm looking for lovers/friends in the Poly sense. I prefer to mix it up sexually and to try different things. I don't have an overpowering fetish, unless my love of role playing and erotic creative writing is a fetish? I can't say I prefer sex with one person, because I don't have experience with group sex... I'm very curious about possibilities--what do you have in mind? I'm very turned on by bondage. I'll be honest, I'm no super uber dominant (as should be obvious that I appreciate sometimes switching it up with my partners), but I really enjoy it! Also, I'm a writer... and into film/photography... creatively and intellectually curious. If you have questions and/or would like to write/talk/meet, contact me.

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KittenshMistress
 
 Age: 24
 ZAMBOANGA CITY, Philippines