Im a retired Firefighter. Didnt realize I was an adrenaline junkie until I retired. Ive been interested in certain aspects of the lifestyle since I was a very young boy. Didnt really know what it was back then...but eventually figured it out. So here I am, being my true self and getting my adrenaline fix at the same time.One of my greatest joys is to expose those new to the lifestyle to its many exciting and fulfilling facets. The look of fear, anticipation, and the unknown, all rolled into one? Priceless! I have years of experience in most, but not every aspect of the lifestyle.I am also a true gentleman. I will hold the door for you...and perhaps smack your ass as you walk through it. Im looking for a real and classy woman, that loves wearing lingerie and also has a sense of humor. In public we can act like a normal couple...if that is what you prefer. I do understand the reasons for that. But in private...your ass is mine! I get tremendous pleasure by giving my partner what she wants and needs...as well as getting pleasure and that ever popular adrenaline rush by doing what I please with her and to her.I strongly believe in three things. 1. Life is short...be yourself and be happy! 2. Laugh as often as possible...its good for the mind, heart and soul. 3. Say what you mean...and mean what you say!The emblem on the side of my fire engine read...Pride, Honor, Courage, Integrity. I believed in that then...and still do. Character is defined by what we do when no one is watching.Into bondagediscipline...mentoringtraining...DDlg...sub wcuck...and masterslave under the right circumstances. I enjoy using ropes, chains, blindfolds, ball gags, whips, paddles, toys, etc. Will have you moaning with pain and pleasure at the same time...begging me to stop and continue in the same breath. Care to play? (evil grin). Be smart...be safe...and be happy.My Ideal PersonA very bad, good woman that enjoys laughing as much as moaning and begging. Chemistry and spark are a MUST! Intelligence is a turn on. A mind fuck can be as much fun as the real deal. I also dont believe physical attraction is being shallow because if there is none...whats the point? I am very selective...and you should be as well.