As a submissive writing a profile isn’t that easy as you really need to avoid three things, or so I believe.

The first thing you need to avoid is sounding as if you expect to control the relationship in some way (topping from the bottom).

And the second is sounding as if you are writing a list of the things you enjoy, and that you expect the relationship to be built around those.

The third is wandering off into the realms of fantasy. Most real life d/s relationships are based on fantasy, but fantasy and reality are in fact poles apart.

But after saying all that the only way i have of describing myself to you is by explaining the kind of relationship i am hoping to become a part of.

Being a submissive sex is of only minor importance to me. My main pleasure comes obviously from the act of submission itself and the pleasure of serving. The pleasure that comes from the act of submission is mainly psychological compared to the physical act of serving. In a way punishment is no different. It can be long and drawn out giving it a more psychological edge, or it can be short, sharp, and physical.

As is obvious by my chosen user name my interest is in serving a couple, and is purely a personal preference. I am not an attractive man. I am in my lat fifties, small in stature, bald and wear glasses. I am hoping to find a couple who have a happy fulfilling sex life and are looking more for a domestic than anything else. A couple who will in most cases exclude me from their personal relationship unless it is to use me as a kind of accessory. I would like the male to be bi-sexual? As I have a bit of a phobia about being touched or touching other men. And although it makes me feel incredibly uncomfortable, it also excites me unbelievably.

So i am looking for a couple who require more of a domestic than a sex slave. Who are experienced and will use me as they see fit, and not tailor my service to my fantasies. I am looking for something long term and regular where i can become not so much one of the family, but one of the servants.