Well theres not much to say here I suppose, as everyones perception of themselves is skewed by what they want to see and believe.
I'm somewhat masochistic, and I love to be pushed to the point where I get out of my own head and live 100% in the moment. Its only happened a handful of times so far, mostly because I need to trust who I'm with enough to let go that much. It's easy to let someone fuck you, but letting someone mindfuck you is a bit different.
I work in a very demanding, public oriented job, so for me discretion has the potential to be a big deal breaker. I do have a webcam, cell phone, pictures galore etc... But I need to be sure they're not falling into the wrong hands before I toss them out to you.
My kinks and preferences change not only by the day, but with the person I'm with as well. Try me, you might be surprised ;)