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Apparently I have not made myself clear in my profile. I consider myself well educated and above the stereotypical racist assumptions. But since some of you didn't understand English the first time around *bobs head, pencils on her eyebrows, puts on her black eyeliner, shakes hair out and wraps bandana around her head* lemme break it down for you mmmmm kkkkkkkk?
1. If you are not in California, Arizona, Nevada, or southern Oregon, I am extremely flattered and I am sure you are all wonderful couples/individuals, however, my family is more important than my pursuit of BDSM. And it is for that reason I chose not to leave those surrounding areas.
2. If you would take the time to actually READ the profile and not just look at the pictures, some of you that come at me with questions clearly already stated in my profile might get a response instead of just clicking delete.
3. I do have a life and it does not revolve around a computer. I have been overwhelmed with responses so please don't whine when I haven't immediately gotten back to you. I am very methodical and go into things with all the facts, not just clicking reply - oh yes! I would love to move to Timbuktu to people i know nothing about and with no future or means of support or returning should something happen so I will be at your mercy or just another horrible statistic. No thank you!
3. Canned responses. While I do appreciate that many have been searching for a long time, it is rather obvious to see who has the copy and paste canned responses in memory. Ever think that perhaps your approach is what is keeping you searching? Just a random thought.
4. Although I do not expect a 600 page thesis upon making contact, I would however appreciate a little bit of thought and effort into your response. What was it that made you respond to me? Was it because I was fresh meat and had a pulse? Desperation to meet your 500 messages a day quota? Something out there made you decide to message me. If you answered yes to either of the 2 previous questions, then let me save you some time. Don't bother! You will just be deleted. Show me that you can hold an intelligible conversation with someone.
5. As much as I respect the wisdom and experience of those much older than myself, if you are over 40 or younger than 25, I appreciate your perspectives and insights, but I have no desire to join a Dom or Couple out of those ranges. It is a person preference. No disrespect intended.
6. And probably most of all:
If you think that because I am asking you to actually act like an adult, show some dignity, and don't assume that just because I am slave I am going to fall to my knees and get you off because you haven't seen the outside world since you discovered BDSM on the internet, then don't bother to message me either. I will not tolerate being disrespected. I do know where the delete and block buttons are on my computer. I also know how to log off.
Perhaps its something some of you should learn to do once in a while.
Until next time America - be good to yourself and each other!
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