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Welcome to my profile! I have a wide variety of hobbies and kinks. I research and learn all I can about each, until Im an expert. I am a ballroom dancer, swing and cha-cha are my favorites. Yes I can teach you how to dance. Im a photographer and have taken all the pics in my profile, yes they are all past subs of mine. Most passionately, I have learned and perfected the art of Shibari (rope bondage). There are many more but you will just need to get to know me to learn about them.
I love teaching new subs. My many years experience helps to mold you into the sub you have always wanted to be and yet will keep you safe and your pleasure levels high! If you are hung up on looks then you probably wont like me. Im not ugly, Im just no GQ model.
You should have a desire to please your man. You should be submissive, switches and Dommes are not my type. I have a soft spot for flat tummies, but love rubbing an ample one like my own. I have a thing for redheads and freckles, but brunettes are also very sexy. I honestly care more about personality and fetishes then looks. The freakier the better. I prefer a modest, low maintenance look high maintenance models need not apply.
What interests me the most about this lifestyle is the differences between subs. I love learning about your desires and limits. After all one subs reward is another subs punishment. I want to provide a safe place where you can be yourself and experience your kinky desires. In order to accomplish this, communication is very important to me. Ive been told that Im brutally honest. At least you will always know where I stand.
Ive been told that Im firm yet fair, smart yet funny, sadistic not mean, calculated not random, and skilled at what I do.
My name is Eric. Show me respect and I will do the same.
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How to Spot a Real Dom
I have come to realize that subs of all kinds need a way to determine if a Dom is legit. So here is a list, that I will add to from time to time, detailing out the qualities that I feel a true Dom should posses. I realize that Doms can be male or female, they can be Daddys or Owners; for sake of simplicity I will us the terms Dom/sub and He/she. Feel free to plug in the roles that apply to you. Remember this is simply my humble opinion take or leave it.
- A Dom will take the time to learn about his sub. This includes but is not limited to likes and dislikes, desires and limits, phobias, health concerns, allergies, and experience level.
- A Dom will use safe words and will never punish a sub for using them.
- A Dom will have experience. If he doesn't, then he should go to meets or munches and learn in a controlled and safe environment from the help of experts.
- A Dom will have patience. Not only patience with his sub, but patience with his own desires and not to act too soon upon them once he is given control.
- A Dom will listen and learn from what he hears.
- A Dom should ask about your past experiences to either repeat what you have enjoyed or avoid what you didn't.
- A Dom should know the terminology related to this lifestyle and be able to explain them to you.
- A Dom should realize that submitting is not only the subs choice but is a gift that should be treated with respect.
- A Dom should respect hard limits and not try to push them.
- A Dom should never interact with a sub from a place of anger or hatred.
- A Dom should not start off the first message or conversation demanding to be called Master or the like.
- A Dom should not prematurely demand a subs obedience, but rather realize a sub will obey when they feel safe and can trust their Dom.
- A Dom should not have to convince you to scene with him. If it does not feel right it probably is not right!
- A Dom should be able to read their sub well enough to ensure they do not go too far.
- A Dom must be honest. Not only with his sub but with himself and his own desires.
- A Dom must be confident, he must be able to know what he wants and be able to enspire obedience in his sub.
- A Dom should know his own skill set and stick to it. He should only use equipment that he is completely versed in. Watching it on you tube does not qualify you.
- A Dom should be affectionate and practice whatever level of aftercare that is needed.
- A Dom should not have to resort to guilt or mind games to get his way.
- A Dom should be able to communicate with his sub or none of the above can happen.
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| Age: 30 |
| Kent.. UK,
United Kingdom |
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