| I have had 5 submissives in my past. All of whom were found through casual means (meaning not thru a BDSM club or site like this). I am married and this will place some constraints on our relationship. Among my previous submissives were two married women. |
However, I also have plenty of vanilla interests. I enjoy rock-climbing, snorkeling, scuba diving, camping, and poker. I make my living in the software industry.
I love the mental aspects of BDSM most and mind fucks are the most important part to me. Let me in and I will make you feel owned. Of late, Ive developed at taste for humiliation and degradation. Caning , Orgasm control, orgasm torture, fisting, and rough nipple play are must haves for me. The rest is negotiable.
I do have a great deal of experience in more extreme activities such as fisting, choking, watersports, and CNC. I can be quite brutal if that suits both of us.
If discretion is necessary (due to your job or any other concerns, you will be hooded for anything recorded as in the photo in my profile of a former sub.
Special note If married, I would require that your husband be fully aware due to previous complications. Im both a physical and emotional sadist. So he must fully accept what will happen. His (or your) tears and pleadings will mean nothing. Your limits and safewords are the only bounds I will accept.
Breast Play (Expert)
Canes and Crops (Expert)
Hair Pulling (Expert)
Mental Bondage (Expert)
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Sensory Deprivation (Expert)
Wax play (Expert)
Electrical Play (Beginner)