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I suppose you could say I have been quite sheltered so far in my life, and am a bit naiive. I was in a relationship for many years, and am now just learning it was a D/s relationship, although I had no idea until recently what that even meant. Because that is the only serious relationship I have had, I feel like a wide eyed innocent sometimes. I was totally devoted to him, a complete submissive and really had no interest in anything but spending time with him and doing what he wanted to do. Now, I am learning that there is so much more to life. I want to learn and grow and develop who I am. That does not mean I am selfish and not still a complete sub, it just means I cannot make someone else happy, without being happy myself first. A person with no interests of their own can be pretty boring. I'm looking forward to learning from those here and sharing thoughts.

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1/13/2010 7:34:24 PM
To anyone who might take the time to read this, I thought I would share something funny that a friend said today.  She said she read an article that said at 25 her brain is now fully developed and she's just wondering when her boobs are going to catch up.  haha

1/13/2010 11:09:29 AM
Here's something I don't understand.  I only show the utmost of respect for others on here, Dominant or submissive.  Because I don't have the same opinion or desires someone else has, that makes me disrespectful?  I'm flattered someone would want to help me out, show me the ropes (pun intended) but because someone has some views or desires that push my limits a little too far, that makes me less submissive and disrepectful?
My submission is a gift to be given to someone I choose to submit to, not to someone that thinks they should just take it because they want it.  That also goes the other way and I would never just assume someone would want to Dominate me just because I want to submit to them. 

1/12/2010 8:33:03 PM

I'm thinking a mug of hot cocoa and a movie sounds pretty good right now, wanna join me?  I've got an extra snuggie. 


1/12/2010 5:25:31 PM
I don't think we're in Kansas anymore Toto!

1/12/2010 1:30:32 PM
I know we made the right decision and its time for me to move on and grow up, learn how to take care of myself, but sometimes its so hard.  I love the new job, I love my new place, but its cold and lonely in bed all alone.

1/11/2010 8:36:02 PM
I bought a lovely new couch for my lovely new condo.  Finally something to sit on besides the bed and the lawn chair!

1/11/2010 8:19:14 PM
mmm I had the best dinner, crab, shrimp and salmon, tossed salad and cheesecake for dessert

1/10/2010 10:32:26 PM
I noticed him watching me again today.  I smiled and he smiled back, then looked away.

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DomMonica
 
 Age: 39
 Lincoln, United Kingdom