It's been quite some time since I put anything up here- It's good to wear the blue again...

I read a news article a few months back that couples who engage in BDSM have healthier relationships than 'vanilla' couples. After some deep thought on the matter, I can see how that'd be accurate. After all, this whole thing requires a level of trust and openness that I doubt the rest of the world even comprehends. All that being said, wouldn't it make sense to represent yourself here as a human being first, and a dominant or submissive second? Even though this is a BDSM personals site? If I don't connect with you emotionally or practically, how in the world could we ever have something meaningful? You want to spank me or pee on me? Fuckin' aye, cool! I like being spanked and peed on. But can we sit at the breakfast table and have an engaging conversation about art, music, politics, finance, cartoons, etc? If not, why would I even think about letting you pee on me?

Fetishes are great and all, but they're only a part of who and what we are. Human contact is the ultimate goal, no?

Just my two cents worth.

Been gone away for some time and it's nice to be back, but Jumpin' Jesus on a pogo stick! It seems people are getting further and further from being able to read, write, spell, and punctuate on even a grade school level!

To those of you who still have it, hats off to ya.  ;)

To quote Jim Anchower...

"Hola, amigos! It's been a while since I've rapped at ya...."

I feel compelled today to lay down some thoughts on fat chicks. Call them "full-figured", "ruebenesque", "bbws", or whatever you like. Me personally, I like the term "fat". I don't view it as an insult. Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe you find it offensive. Maybe using politically correct terms makes you feel less stigma. Whatever the reason, I think you all (and by you all I mean you fat women) ought to know that you're beautiful. Your big soft tummies, your legs (Oh god, your legs!!) your chubby dimpled cheeks when you smile, your adorable posteriors, every last bit of you is proof that there is a God and that he loves men.

Don't be offended or shirk away from the word "fat". Embrace your fat self. Or let me embrace your fat self (ha ha).

Face it: You're fat, you're sexy, you're all that godammit!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aPR_T7Cp-aA

That is all.

I read journal entries on every profile I visit. It just seems like a pretty natural thing to do. However, I think its pretty funny (not funny ha-ha, funny pathetic) when I see profiles DEMANDING that people read their journal entries. It's the CM equivalent of the facebook "please like every one of my posts, pages, links, and groups so that I don't feel so fucking pathetic, oh won't you PLEASE validate my existence?" tactic. I mean, seriously... I post here for MY personal gratification. If you're reading this, good for you. If not, my life is still going on and on and on. Just my opinion.

Once again, hate mail welcome.  :)

Oh, and also...  BBW's STILL fucking rule. Period.