I'm a mature man who came to this lifestyle more than a decade ago and over that time have come to understand a number of realities, some about me and my needs, and some about submissive women and their needs.

About me, first the mundane, I'm height weight proportional, all my hair, been told I'm good looking, don't drink, smoke or do drugs, and am std free. At a deeper level, I'm fairly bright, understand that there is a 'pace' at which things have to proceed for the necessary chemistry to come out, have developed an understanding of women in general and submissives in particular and am very intuitive, to the point that I can often see in others that which they are unwilling to acknowledge or even realize about themselves.

While there is a wide variety of women in this lifestyle, I am interested in meeting one of those few women who see in themselves some of the following;

You may talk about the lifestyle and your interests as a philosophical direction in your life but you know deep down, your real need is to be "taken" and used by a man how ever he wants;

You may verbalize the search for an ltr with that perfect "One" but underneath it all you want something less than perfect for the short term to satisfy your cravings;

Underneath all of the window dressing, your real motivation is to give pleasure to a man, and you know that in the heat of it, it is less important who it is, than how it makes you feel;

You'd rather have a man who wants to enjoy you for being the slut you are, then a man who says all the right things a dom is supposed to say;

Even though you express that you like this or that, the reality is you don't want a man to be concerned about what you want, but to take his pleasure from you and to guide you so you can give him the pleasure he wants.

LIke it says above, I'm no spring chicken. With me, what you get is maturity and, dare I say it, wisdom. I have room in my life, on a part time basis, for a woman that is real, that sees a fit with some or all of whats written here, and that is secure enough to be comfortable with part time. For that woman, I am here for more than just those cravings but as a shoulder to lean on, or cry on, as a mentor to seek help from, and as a friend to be comfortable with.

Please be local or travel to Vegas somewhat regularly. Pic on request, and that goes both ways.