What am I looking for? Wow. Tough question.

To start with, I am married and my wife would know. We do not cheat and are active swingers.

I guess I'm looking to find a new experience outside of the realm of the regular swing community.

Perhaps a chance to experience the things I have fantasized about for years but never had the initiative or courage to actually do.

I am very hard charging in real life but fall into a general submissive category, sexually. I am not looking to be a dog or a maid or a cross dresser. Those are not my interests.

I am looking for an assertively strong woman with a dominant streak. Not whips and chains but teasing and taunting. Denial. Enjoys having a man begging for more and allowing him to worship at her feet.

I don't know if this is the place for me to look or not. I don't know if I'm "sub" enough for this site but I thought I'd give it a try.

Would love to take you to lunch as a start.