leading guidance an elegant gesture a deviant mind a soul worth touching connection balance one to listen and one to see creative open and worth exploring consistent patient hard communication rough and tough laughing Dominance taking, and then giving back playful and flirting, serious acceptance submission
11/5/2009 10:14:03 AM
there are a lot of Dom/mes and subs that have Dom/mes and subs that spend all day here on CM...just an interesting observation.
10/1/2009 6:28:15 AM
Research can be very interesting at times. :)
9/30/2009 10:36:58 PM
there are times when the ache is more...it is pain, deep down inside, unfulfilled, incomplete. when want becomes need, and hunger becomes craving. physical and mental desires mix with sexual and emotional ones.
9/30/2009 8:49:19 PM
So very disappointing. How sad is that? Oh well...
7/20/2009 5:19:08 PM
A recent encounter with a friend has caused me to pause and re-evaluate what it is that I am seeking. I had nearly forgotten what it felt like to be touched in anyway, be it held in an embrace, be it a kiss down the neck, a hand around the throat, a tit being slapped, my head being held while...well, you get the general idea. And yes, I do realize that that is sexual use and that is not all, not at all what encompasses my desires in this lifestyle.
Use like that is important though. Consistent use. Constant communication.
I have been around long enough that I don't believe I can go back to considering long distance D/s. Yes, it has worked in the past for me, but I find myself increasingly frustrated and not in a good and productive way. Too much is lost. Sensation is diminished. And honestly, these things are hard for me say because I have been a big supporter for years of long distance relationships. It can and does happen magically for some and they are able to accept a few times a year.
Anyway, I am thinking hard about this and what the best thing for me is and for any potential Dominant.
7/9/2009 8:09:04 PM
i don't think i will ever understand...
11/7/2008 9:27:18 AM
I had a conversation with a Dom friend last night. He's one of those natural Dominants, one of those rare one's that 'get' what D/s is all about. Talking with him, sharing thoughts and ideas made me ache. I thanked him for this because I had ceased to feel anything for the lifestyle. I had ceased to believe in the wonder that the lifestyle can be.
Maybe I'll find my way again...
10/29/2008 5:06:02 AM
Have you ever told a girl to ask you for another kiss?
Have your fingers ever itched with the overwhelming need to spank a particular girl?
9/20/2008 8:38:26 PM
Thank you for reading my profile and taking the time to comment on it.
Thank you for wishing me luck in finding what I seek here.
Thank you for asking about my interests.
Thank you for finding something worth your interest in my words.
Simply, thank you is all it would take.
7/12/2008 6:44:01 AM
i write a lot, all the time. It's what i do, it's one of the things i need. i send people messages from time to time asking questions. It's because i write, i am curious. i write character not heavy plot. i write emotion, depth, dark sexual desire and so, at times, i need to ask questions. i am not trying to pick you up, or hook up with you, merely something about you has intrigued me enough for me to ask or comment. i'm sorry so many run scared...
