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lunatri

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Updating and changing this already after just a few hours so it is more clear........because it appears it wasn't clear before *facepalm

I am naturally a dominant person. But you thought you read female submissive right? Right! I am a sexually submissive woman!
I have a strong personality. I frequently deal with intense situations and have to consistently show strength and leadership in the work that I do.
I am relied upon to give a voice to people who would otherwise not be heard and so I have had to learn to be purposeful and forceful. I am the type who will move mountains and walk the length of country to make and succeed. Stubborn doesn't come in to it in that sense.
I have a lot of commitments, business and personal and am generally busy and independent but with room in my life for the right person which it currently lacks. Despite the dominant aspect of my personality which is outwardly displayed I am naturally submissive in other ways such as sexually but only to one person. It is a part of me that few ever see and only one person can truly know
I seek a man who can correctly balance my need for an outwardly dominant personality which appears "vanilla" and my need to have that dominance met and subdued by a stronger male. I didn't tick the what I am seeking box, this is because I have no expectations or limitations on why I am here. I am not looking to rush in to any relationships, well not really properly looking at all, more you could say throwing a net out in case the one rare person I am looking for is some how by some miracle reading this right now. Before considering I could be right for you please ask yourself if these statements apply to you. If they don't then it's probably not worth us connecting. (No offence)
You are someone who's sexuality and dominance is important to you, however it does not define you. Your dominant sexuality is one part of many, making up an interesting person! You have a good level of intelligence, independent thought, and logical thought process. You understand different levels of domination and submission and subtle methods of domination. You are not looking for a slave, punch bag, door mat, or pet trained type woman.
I will try to respond to all sensible messages please be patient with me :)
Help me reply to genuine messages faster and show me you have at least read my profile by quoting something or commenting on the part of it which made you want to write to me. Peace L.T

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3/25/2013 1:21:54 AM

So far it has been a really enjoyable experience here on collar me. I haven't got to spend an awful lot of time on here yet but the time I have spent has been good fun. I am finding it a refreshing change to connect with people who are less predictable and lets face it a lot less boring! 

I have answered all the messages that were sent to me Saturday and a few of yesterdays though, I should imagine the novelty of the "new girl" wont be too long lived because it's been a bit too much for me to be able to give people the response their messages deserve, do you give incomplete response or delayed responses? So please don't think I am rude.

My desire to be dominated again after so long is growing,  I have not had sexual company for a little while and some of the thoughts and suggestions which have been implanted in my mind have left me incredibly turned on for a significant part of the last couple of days and yet I have not even had chance to properly talk to anyone.  

I imagine at this rate I would have driven myself insane by the time I get to the stage where I am going to meet someone.

The mind truly IS the most potent part of the body! 

Peace

L.T


3/23/2013 9:00:27 PM

My first draft of a profile for collar me has been successful. I was warned about the bedlam when a new submissive arrives on here and how things can be slightly overwhelming. My direct style profile appears to have minimised the amount of unwanted and random replies and most seem to have actually read what I wrote!

Some of the replies have made me smile and chuckle out loud, I really enjoyed the response from one couple who totally disregarded my profile text and instead let me know how they plan to use and abuse me at their convenience. I would have usually put that in the "not suitable" pile but they look like fun and I admire their cheek and confidence.

As for finding that miracle man my collar me adventure is now off the starting blocks.

I prefer to respond to things rather than to react to things. I allocate time for reading, time for thinking and time for replying so please allow for this and don't get all cranky if I don't reply to you immediately, I do hope to respond to all sensible messages in good time.

Some of the replies talk about a mixture of "vanilla" and D/s in relationships. Sure I am not seeking a 24 hour calling someone Master or Sir, and neither am I looking for total "vanilla" snapping in to D/s role plays.

I recognise the need deep within me to be submissive to a partner, the submissive side of me in some ways never turns off for that person and they will always hold more influence over me than I would otherwise allow and more than any other person. Certain areas of my life and my business are not to be played with and will be recognised as being out of bounds for any sort of game play.

The person I am during sexual contact is very different from the person I generally present to the world. I have a very sexually submissive nature, I seek to be with someone who has the ability to easily overpower me but not someone who will necessarily always want to do so.

I wouldn't want to switch because for me mentally once a man submits to me there is no going back, I assume the dominant position until I get bored and go on to find someone more dominant.

The right dominant man for me would control large aspects of me in very subtle ways, they would quickly learn my patterns and standard reactions learn to trigger their desired response. It is manipulation, but not for sinister purposes, I like to think of it as ethical manipulation. He would control my orgasms in as many ways as possible and make me do random, bizarre or inappropriate things to please him at inappropriate times which may make me feel genuinely uncomfortable at times.

This journal is not only for people to read but to help me personally establish what it is I am looking for. I may sound inexperienced in D/s or like someone who is looking for an occasional tie and tease on top of a regular relationship none of which is correct. 

I spent 4 years deeply exploring my submissive side and pushed most of my boundaries in to oblivion. I moved on with other parts of my life and left it behind. 5 years since I left that part of my life and I am deeply missing something and I can't seem to find it until a dominant man spotted my confused sub syndrome and told me what I missing. Within moments I had travelled back years to the first time someone said that to me and I knew he was right.

Peace

L.T

 


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MISSshick
 
 Age: 28
  New York