Fantasy land = 20 emails/messages/letters, no plan to meet; a car that can't be driven 10 miles, have to babysit, afraid to meet I'm too shy, Bullshit, etc.
Reality welcome to BDSM; 10 or less emails, meet in a public place, chat, if you don’t know then, go home and dream some more, life is short to waste it sitting in front of a computer when there are those needing spankings and discipline.
Trust: two meanings; first, knowing your dominant will protect you and take you to the limits, while honoring your limits, second, where you put your money because your family is so full of idiots that have no respect for money.
A true dominant is not going to go out of their way to meet, I go to lunch, we meet there, if not get lost and stop wasting my time.
Those who drive 50 miles to meet and the sub (s)/slave(s) does not show up are called idiots not Master/Mistress.
Those who drive to pick up those who follow profess to their directions are either mothers or taxi drivers, sometimes referred to as a desperate person (also not a dominant trait) |