All the about me kind of stuff is down below. Mostly just a copy/paste from my fetlife profile. Unfortunately this site doesn't seem to do a good job of letting you express what you are looking for very well. So here is an idea of what I am hoping to find. It isn't a complete list, but should give a general idea.

Also, I wish they had Heteroflexible as an option for orientation. Bisexual doesn't really fit that well.

I would be interested in these kinds of relationship partners:

• Skills practice buddy

• Play partner

• Service sub

• Baby Girl

• Kitten (human pet)

  Priestess/Goddess/Scarlett Woman

  Non-sexual cuddle buddy

I could be open to:

• Vanilla activity partner

• Dating a couple

• 24/7 (without cohabitation)

Not interested in:

• Primary partner (I already have one)

• Monogamous partner (I am not monogamous)

• Helping you cheat (other than consensual role play maybe)

• Sugar baby (i.e. - not looking for direct money in exchange for time or services)

• TPE (at least not right now)

My Kink In general I am a very top heavy switch. I also have a primal that comes out to play when he encounters another yummy primal. I find myself primarily attracted to folks who are more feminine or androgynous and rarely attracted to very masculine. Just the way I am wired. Though I am open to potential scenes/sessions with people outside my primary attraction zone. When it comes down to it, it is much more about the person and how we click.

My Relationships I am poly with a mostly vanilla primary partner. She likes to say she is vanilla with sprinkles. I have my girlfriend that I care very much for, but do not see often due to schedules. I also have a close friends that is now also a play partner. For me being poly means having the freedom to pursue the right degree of intimacy and connection with people I care about.

My Calling Most of my kink play up until now has been focused on just that, play. I am now really focusing on the use of kink for personal growth and healing for both myself and the person I am working with. In essence turning it into a spiritual practice. However, still very much based in science and psychology. While pursuing my studies and my own personal growth I have discovered my calling. I want to bring connection and wholeness to people through kink and spirituality. A few of the things I am doing in pursuit of this goal:

• I host a two monthly munches
• I co-teach classes on using kink for healing
• I will be co-leading a several month long training for people to become certified sex & intimacy coachest
• I also often volunteer at various kink events