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A thousand can steal your soul, but it only takes one to make you whole.
What I believe about DOM/sub male/female relationships:
-Woman was made for man, not the other way around.
-A woman belongs to the one to whom she submits, and that man becomes her authority, protector and covering. A woman has no power of herself outside of that which is granted to her by the power of authority, and this power is a gift only.
-Likewise, a man is not made whole unless he has woman, But the man is the initiator, the woman is the responder, not the other way around.
-Accordingly, A woman should not stir up a mans passion until he so desires. A woman however may show her desire by submission and obedience.
-If a woman stirs up a mans passion falsely, it is disrespectful the mans power and authority of which she herself receives benefit, and harms the circle of relationship for both. (Most men today are made powerless because of this.)
-Once a woman submits to a man, they enter into a special circle of relationship known only to them. If a woman submits to another-or stirs up the desires of another willfully after this circle has been forged, then it breaks the circle and the power leaves the relationship. The same is true for the man...if he violates the circle of the relationship then the circle is broken and power leaves.
-The circle is made of trust. When trust is violated, the covenant is broken.
What I look for in a woman: Truth and honesty, a woman who follows after the heart and not after the ways of the world.
What I am not looking for: Go to a bar on a saturday night and look at all the women dressed up to catch the eyes of all the men. I prefer the opposite of that. The woman I am looking for only wants to please the eyes of one man: her Man. She should be vanilla to all others on the outside, but inside the circle of the relationship with her Man, her desire should be to His will and her thoughts should be focused how to please Him.
Its not easy to enter into the circle of trust. Fools rush in haphazzardly. The Dominant man guides his woman with both authority and mercy, and the submissive woman learns to follow and trust her Dominant man over time.
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