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Hello, I am a married submissive that is looking for a mentor here locally or close by the central coast . I am a bbw and if you don't like bigger women then please move on. I'l looking for sessions and not really into extremes . I am looking for a guy that is looking for a long session and not just a quickie. Even though I am a big girl I am very erotic and enjoy sex a lot but haven't been with many men in my life . I love flogs , bondage , blindfolds to name a couple but pretty shy and vanilla for the most part. I would like to try nipple clamps or nipple vibes and candle wax but again not a have to. We can not play at my home as I don't feel that I would be able to be comfortable with it. My husband knows that I'm searching and he has pushed me to find someone to please me fully and if you are married and doing this behind someone's back please move on. I'm not a slave but do enjoy being pushed from time to time but again not into extremes. I will not send out naked pictures and only looking for one guy not several. I don't need a mentor to help with my day to day life as I am in control of that pretty much but can get away when and if needed. I have tried cbt and enjoyed it but I don't feel i'm a switch just the more attention the better .Well California is short lived and now moving far away . Life sure can throw you this way and that. If I haven't returned your message it wasn't because I am rude I just think that it isn't right to start something that could go anywhere other then maybe a one time thing. I wasn't totally for sure that I was moving or not until now so I've choose not to answer any message until I knew for sure as I feel it wouldn't be a very kind thing to do. I wish you the best and here goes nothing LOL .