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[22-Oct-2015] UPDATE: I have arrived in Colorado Springs!! I wish to find a FEMALE slave, or a sub, for a full time LTR. I am tired of the silly vanilla life. It is time for us to build a special relationship that others would not understand. My hard limits include: Drama, Stress, Diva-like Behavior, and freaking out about little things.
I need a sub/slave that will serve me loyally. Loyalty will be rewarded. Bad behavior will be punished. Pain can also be a way of expressing love. But I am not the kind of "Dom" that believes Dominance means being a miserable dickhead. Rather, Dominance comes form competence, wisdom, leadership, responsibility, and strength of character and personality. A sub will be naturally submissive, wanting to trust and obey me because they are inspired too.
The slave will have much attention. I am a computer programmer, and I work from home. So we would be together at home pretty much all of the time. As a slave/sub, the reward for your loyalty will be that you never have to worry about anything in your life. I will take care of the bills, and all of the issues that come up. I will tell you what is right, and what is wrong. But you will be trained, spanked, clamped, tied up, and maybe caged. You will be naked all day, and required to serve me, or any friends, when ordered to. I am open to a female slave, or possibly a couple.
Looking for a cute, quirky, geeky slave chick, maybe with an addition to online games or something. Ideally Asian, but open to anyone who fits. Maybe you can teach me to speak Japanese, or Thai. If you are a techie, geek slave or sub, I would love to hear from you. If you can tell me what a "man in the middle" attack is, I want to talk to you. But don't worry if you don't know. (No, has nothing to do with the man in the boat.) Extra points if you know Linux, or can tell me the significance of the address in my photo.
So you are a sub/slave. What else are you? What else will you be molded into? A ninja assassin? An underground computer hacker, breaking into the systems of evil corporations? A secret agent? An elite gamer that beats the crap out of boys online, and then insults their manhood? Are you a Trekkie? a physicist? an exotic countess? A princess? Are you a human toilet? a fucktoy? A cow to be milked. Are you just a blank slate to be shaped and taught by master? Maybe I will train you into a super-hacker chick. (Think girl with the Dragon Tattoo.) I don't mind a girl who is a little bit crazy, but I really hate drama-diva.
But most importantly, be real!! I am a free thinker, and will only consider a slave/sub who is also a free thinker. A person who questions everything. Note that this does not mean a woman who complains about everything. A woman who truly challenges reality. I don't want to hear "I think outside the box". I want to hear "what box"?
I am ultimately considering a poly relationship. Don't know exactly how it would work out. But I am a free thinker, and do not feel compelled to follow societies' rules for how we must behave.
IMPORTANT: Under no circumstances will I send you money before we meet in person. I might buy you a ticket, and arrange for your travel. And we are together, and I know that you are real, all I have is yours. But there are far too many scammers on this site, only interested in having people send them money. If you are a true sub/slave, you will understand this, and accept it.
If you are just a scammer, trying to get guys to send you money, go fuck yourself. I don't care if you have six boobs, and three vaginas, and promise sex till the end of the world. I will NOT send you money. No, telling me that I should trust you, and believe that you are real will not help.
ACCOUNTS KNOWN TO ME TO BE SCAMMERS:
ReadyToServe002:
Actually some guy in Nigeria. Has a Google voice number. Gets mad when you refuse to
send money for "travel expenses".
LEMEKIA28:
Uses the same photos and other accounts that I have traced to Legos, Nigera. Look at
tattoos around "her" waist. They are very custom, and a dead giveaway. Will beg that
you send "her" gas money, so she can "come home to you"
slavxxxolosho:
This girl says that she is in Delaware. However, when I chatted with her, I was able to
determine that her IP address is in Bankok, Thailand. I even asked her to verify her
location, and to tell me the truth. She insisted that she was in the USA.
laritzaalba12:
Another Nigeran. Says that "she" is in Arkansas, or Texas. But I was able to trace IP
address back to Nigera. Once I explained that I am a network security engineer, and was
able to determine "her" location as Nigera "she" finally admitted it.
rightSubfordom:
Yet another Nigerian. Has photos of a hot blond chick. Says "She" is in SF, California. I chatted
with this savage, and it's a guy in Nigera. Yet a.nother woggie savage.
Note, I have told CS support about all of these accounts, and they have not disabled them. So I can only assume they don't mind scammer trying to screw us. Maybe the profiles with hot photos increase site traffic, or something. Though the were very quick to respond to me calling them "assholes", they don't seen interested in stopping scammer accounts. Go figure. They say that they don't allow "Blacklists" because in their words: "As has been recounted countless times, the fundamental flaw with this idea is not that it is ill intended, it is that there is not, nor can there be, any fact checking of such claims." Well how about this?? If they list their location as "Chicgo, IL", but the IP address that they use to create and access the account is in Nigera, that MIGHT be a scammer! Duh! And they actually have to impudence to be offended when you call them dumbasses. Note that the above two listed accounts are STILL active.
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On Finding Fakers and Scammers
I am sure you have all run into fakers and scammers. It is all too common. Collarspace says "Please don't tell support about them. Please use the automated reporting system". What I think they are really saying is "We don't give a fuck, and we don't want to be bothered by you". I have reported several accounts that I know are scammers, and all of the accounts are still active. When i finally wrote directly to support, the guy was all upset that I called him an asshole. Well, if you people did some actual work, maybe people would not consider you assholes.
It would be very easy for CS to flag accounts that are most likely scammers. How about this, if the user says that they are in Cincinnati, OH, but the IP address that that they set the account up from is in Nigeria, and the account is always accessed from Nigeria, it is most likely a fake account. Now I know that CS will say that "they could be traveling", or "they could be using a vpn", or other bullshit like that. But it is just that, BULLSHIT. Checking IP address locations would be an easy way for them to detect fake accounts. It would be, as I told the asshole in support, about 6 lines of code, and really easy to implement. The only thing that would stop them would be if they truly did not give a fuck about it. And, indeed, that does seem to be the case.
They also say they "don't allow blacklisting", meaning that they don't want you to post who the fakers are. They say this is because "there is no way to determine if the account is fake". Well, there is the IP address, as I mentioned above. and they say that if you report an account as fake, and that accounts reports you as fake, they have no way of determining who is telling the truth. Again, the person who's IP address matches where they say they are is probably telling the truth. The person who says they are in America, but their IP address shows them is Africa is the liar. Very simple, but it would take getting off your dead ass, and giving half of a shit about.
How Can WE Find Scammers Ourselves?
You can't always determine if you are talking to a scammer, but there are a few easy things you can try. First of all, if you are using Chrome, right-click on a photo in this persons profile, and select "Search Google for this image". If you don't get many search results, or if they all point back to Collarspace, that is a good sign. If you get a whole load of hits, and especially if they point to various "Hot Asian girls want fuckie suckie you" web sites, the account is probably fake.
If you are chatting on Yahoo with this person, then you have a very good option available to you. Once they have told you that they are in the US, and ready to drop everything in their life to be your total slave, you can send them a link that when they click on it will reveal their IP address. Got to "http://tools.vngoogle.com/", and watch the very short video there. Basically when you send them the link the vngoogle server then watches for them to click on it. When they do, it will show you the other users IP address, and geographic location. If they said that they are on Bolder, CO, but the IP address traces back to Yemin, you are being scammed. If they refuse to click on the link, it is because they know that doing this will reveal their location, and thus again, you know they are scammers.
The only thing worse than scammer setting up fake accounts is that CS does not seem to care about it. Their behavior is nothing short of sleazy and incompitent. Below are some accounts that I have determined to be fakes.
ReadyToServe002:
Actually some guy in Nigeria. Has a Google voice number. Gets mad when you refuse to
send money for "travel expenses".
LEMEKIA28:
Uses the same photos and other accounts that I have traced to Legos, Nigera. Look at
tattoos around "her" waist. They are very custom, and a dead giveaway. Will beg that
you send "her" gas money, so she can "come home to you"
slavxxxolosho:
This girl says that she is in Deloware. However, when I chatted with her, I was able to
determine that her IP address is in Bankok, Thailand. I even asked her to verify her
location, and to tell me the truth. She insisted that she was in the USA. Actually had the
balls to ask me if I would bring her to America after I found out she was lying about her
location
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On Slaves Serving Their Master
When I first signed up for this site, my interests were purely sexual. I wanted a slut that I would take care of, and we would have lots of sex. I am not really into BSDM, but I have gained an interesting perspective. What I am looking for now is deeper than just sexual.
Yes, I want a slave, of a submissive. I am not into humiliating, or beating, or degrading any woman. For those of you who are into that, no problem. It is just not my thing. I think there is a huge difference between being a dom/master, and being a dickhead. I understand that the master owns his slave in the same way that a dog owner owns a dog. No, I don't mean that in an insulting way. Most owners LOVE their dogs. They take wonderful care of them, provide for them, make sure that their dogs have what they need. And the dog loves the master. A good master does not kick his dog, or abuse him A good master understands and loves his dog, even though he knows and understands that it's a dog. I don't like using the idea of a dog as an example. I guess a better paradigm would be the Feudal Japanese culture, with some modification. A Japanese wife gives herself to her husband. He own her. She gives her body, heart and soul to him willingly. She serves him. In return, the Japanese man provides for her wife. He loves her, protects her, provides for her. She knows that he will keep her safe, loved, and she will not have to worry about this.
So, at least from my perspective, the slave serves the master, but the master also serves the slave. Yes, I know some of you don't do it that way, but that is what the service of a slave means to me. So if any of you women want to be beaten and shit upon, and abused, and humiliated, I would not be the guy for you. But if you want to bind your soul to a master who would also bind his soul to you, please send me a message. |
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Ok, "Mary" is not real. She still refuses to admit it, but I have no doubt. And I will admit that even though I new better, I sent her money. Well, it was not to much, and I will never do that again. Apparently, she spent the money to buy her dear sweet mother who was in the hospital with lung cancer some medicine that she needed so she would not die. And then she actually had the balls to ask me to send her more money so that she could visit me. At least it gave me an opportunity to NOT send her any more money. I don't even think that "she" is in the US, as when I was able to find her IP address, it was in London. I hope I personally catch one of these people one day. This is the kind of behaviour that will get your birth certificate cancelled. But I digress. I was stupid, I can't change it. At least I was able to learn from it. So I drive on. Because I always drive on. Though this one was fake, I think I understand some things better now, and not just about "don't send any money". She has helped me understand the slave thought process, and I will write about it in another entry. |
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I have been here for about a month now.
I am on other swinger sites, but this place is pretty strange. Sure I get the being into kinky things and enjoying taboos. I understand the people who are into the daddy/little girl thing. I even how some people enjoy being spanked, and a little bit of that sounds fun. I have to say that the photos I have seen of beautiful women tied up are extremely sexy.
But I don't understand how some people actually like to be humiliated and physically hurt. I don't understand the women who want to be told that they are worthless and not human. I don't understand wanting to be literally shit on and pissed on, made to do things that you don't want to do. Yes, I do get that some people get off on being controlled by another person. But women are gods most beautiful creation. I feel bad for the ones that want to be told that they are useless, worthless, and not human. When I call a woman "my whore", I am not trying to humiliate her. I am saying "I love you".
Still, they are not bothering me, so to reach their own. This site seems to be full of fakes, with a few real members doing the best they can to contact other real people. So far, I have been contacted by 3 people that, while not a match for what I seek, took the time to compliment me on being so honest in my profile. I am happy that there are some real people here, as it gives me hope that maybe I might find someone real.
However, that has been an up-hill battle. Thus far, I have spoken to one "slave" that "needed to be with me", but she needed me to send her money "today" because her master was kicking her out. The price to get her here finally dropped to $50. Her profile is still up. I guess master did not throw her out. There was another very pretty young girl in IL who I chatted with briefly. About 5 minutes into chatting, she told me that "we have a problem". It seems that her Internet was going to be shut off any minute, and that I should send her money to help her. Well, her Internet is still on, and she refuses to admit that she is a bullshitter.
And then there is Mary. I actually do hope that she is real. Some of the things that she has told me make me think she is real, but many more things tell me that she is a fake. She does not have a telephone that we could speak on. She needed $180 to visit me, even though she only lives 160 miles away. She was going to come to visit me on 3 separate occasions, but her "mum" always got sick. She told me she uses "her mums computer", but then it turned out to be a Blackberry. Apparently her blackberry can't make phone calls.
I have to say that "Mary" is perfect in every way except she does not appear to be real. I hope I find one like here that is real.
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Must they all be fakes, simply after money? And then they act all offended when I don't believe them. |
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Just updated my profile, gave a detailed deion about what I am looking for. So far on this site I have seen bullshit. I have chatted with two "girls" (who knows) that wanted to come and be my slave, but they needed me to send them money first, and said that I should trust them. I am a manwhore, and I am a freak; but I am not stupid.
Then there was the guy who wanted to "give me his wife", and wanted us to abuse him and beat him. All he seemed to be intrested in is having me comment on the photos he sent of his wife. "Do you like her boobs? What do you like about them? What do you think about her face?" Mister, let me explain this to you. I am NOT looking to pretend that I am going to find a whore, I am really looking to do it. I am not interested in fueling your fantasy. I want to meet a woman who really wants to be my whore goddess.
Because we live in the real world, it is imporant that we actually have enough in common to be able to live together, and be happy. But if you are a total whore goddess, if you are cool and intelligent, I am sure we will have plenty in common.
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Ok, I am looking for a slut goddess. That makes me strange, sure. But it does not male me stupid. No matter how much you want to be my slave, I will not send you money to "keep your Internet on, because they are going to turn it off today". Sure if that were really the case of course o would provide for my slave. But we both know that is not true, don't we.
It is a master's job to protect and provide for his slave. When you are with me I will fulfill all of your needs. But I will not be scammed into sending money. |
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I have been looking for my slut goddess for a long time. Here is the post I had on Craigslist. No bites.
Looking for slut who can never get enough: Lets talk - m4w - 46 (North Nashville)
age : 46
Yes, I am looking for a woman who loves sex, and is a total slut goddess. You can live for free, I will take care of you, and your bills, and we will have lots of fun.
Yes, I am serious. Want details?
I am a white computer profesional, 46 years old, 5'7" 200 pounds. I have black hair and brown eyes, some extra padding, and an average size cock. I am funny, interesting, and very horny. I like fine dining, and I make pretty good money, and live north of Nashville. I have no jealousy, so you can fuck whomever you like. I have had several long relationships, but it seems that they always lose their interest in sex over time. I am looking for a woman who is a total nympho, and who just can't get enough. You can stay home during the day, and search the Internet for people for us to fuck. I want to come home to you getting fucked by a pile of people, and I will join in. On the weekends I want to host a sex party at our house, or take you to a sex club. We will meet swinger couples for friendship and sex. We will fuck men, women, couples, groups, and small villages together. I am a total man-whore, and will be into trying anything you want.
Your job will be to stay home all day, surf the Internet, and set up people for us to fuck, and sex parties for us to attend. I have no problem with you fucking by yourself while I am at work. The only 'responsibilities' you will have are normal household chores: cleaning, laundry, cooking. In exchange for this, you will receive free room and board. Not to mention we will have lots and lots of sex. Maybe we will setup a webcam site, and people can subscribe to watch us fuck. Please be laid-back, funny, drama-free. Extra points for women who squirt, or who are bi.
Please be interesting, as am I, because we can't fuck ALL the time; we will eventually have to talk to each other. So I am less interested in your age, your weight, your race. Mostly, just be a total slut nympho that is also fun with her clothes on, and we will get along fine.
No, it is NOT just about sex. I am into many other things. I like computers, guns, "The Living Dead", Italian food, and lots more. I believe that if you are interested in the above deception, if this is you, then we are likely to be a great match. So, get in touch with me and we will see where it goes. If you send me a photo, I will send one back. Naughty photos go to the front of the list.
Again, I am very serious. If this sounds like you then please respond with "Details" in the subject line. We will exchange a few e-mails to get acquainted, speak on the phone so we both know that we are real, and then meet somewhere for coffee. Do not send me another e-mail address to write to, as that is what the spammers are doing. Our initial e-mails will be through the Craigslist mail system.
If this sounds like your secret fantasy then hurry up and reply. I can't wait to hear from you. Reply to THIS email address. I will not reply to spammers trying to get me to write to another email address. |
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Today I signed up for a free account on Collarspace.com. I have always wanted a whore-slave, and I think on this site I will find one. I am very serious about this. I have been with jeannie for many years now, and she wonders why I have not married her. The truth that I have never told her is that she is just not slutty enough for me.
I want to find a woman who is a total whore. I want us to swing together. I want her to fuck anyone who I tell her to, or anyone that I want us to fuck together. I want her to spend the day naked at home, wearing only the heavy metal chains that I will buy for her. I want to send strange guys to the door, and have her fuck them. I want her to spend the day finding people for us to fuck.
Is this BSDMd? Probably not. But I hope that whatever it is called, I find it here. |
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| Age: 31 |
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