I am very new to this... I have never been actively involved in this lifestyle...but i am eager to learn. I will say that I have been inundated with e-mails since I joined so please be patient while I browse...I am looking for a natural dominant-someone with confidence, maturity, and someone that protects. I bore easily and require a partner that can control me and hold my attention. I love to be lead in every way. I am seeking a teacher, with patience, and experience.