Well l,let me start with a little biography:) I am 31 years old and have my Bachelors in Psychology and Education with a minor in Sign Language. I love movies, some outdoor activities such as walks and rollerblading. Although I am trying to learn how to do the latter and I seem to spend more time picking myself up off the ground than I actually do getting anywhere. I love to read anything from psychology, religion, politics, philsophy to fiction and biographies. I also love history. Although I must admit that I love ther European side of WWII and midevil times the most.. I love art museums and going to the Lakes in uptown for a stroll and maybe some snacks at a local cafe. I love to cook and bake, I collect recipes. quilting is relaxing and I cant stand a mess:)

I believe that trust and communication are key to any relationship and without them you have nothing. I am not looking for someone who wants to play head games with me or is out looking for nothing more than a good time. I want something more real and substantial. Something with the potential for growth together as a couple and a "team". I love affection and crave to "spoil" someone else. I find that I am a compassionate and caring person and I desire the same in a man. I want my future life partner to not only my mate but my best friend. Someone I can cry and laugh with, share the good and the bad with, be a part of my dreams and goals, someone I can support in his also. I want to be able to know that no matter what happens that we will always have each other. I may sound a bit hopeful but I see nothing wrong with wanting everything I can get out of life and trying my best to achieve those things.

Now for BDSM stuff. My limits are few, I am a pretty seasoned sub. I can take a lot. I dont do blood, animals, kids, scat, scarring and third parties unless discussed ahead of time. I can take severe pain but not right away. Electricity and needles scare me and so do breathe games. but I may try them once trust is established. My deepest desire is to please and serve. I feel empty when not serving a Master. I get wet just knowing that he is enjoying using me and I am pleasing him, even if the activity being done isnt one i like. I love tight restrictive bondage. the complete loss of control. blindfolds are wonderful for me. I love being able to enjoy the sensations and not have to to try to read your face or worry about whats coming next.. I love to just focus in on whats going on. I love breast bondage and torture. Pussy play is great. Denial of orgasm and self release. I want to always remember whose I am and who I serve:) the more control you can take the happier I am. As a sub its scary serving the first time cause he literally has your life in his control and somehow you would think it would be less scary without ropes but it isnt for some reason. But I would serve you as you wished, just a helpful hint I would do best with a blindfold the first time sometimes. i get too nervous and with my psychology degree I would be trying to read your expression the whole time and not really enjoy myself too much. its a psychology thing I cant help it I anaylze people a lot when I first meet them:)

Well Hope that this has intrigued you...I would love to hear from some experienced and creative Doms.

I do have pics and would be happy to trade.