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	Looking to find the One (hopefully). I have been interested in this lifestyle since it was first introduced to me when I was 15. I have had several years of real life experience within the lifestyle as well as several bad experiences with "so called Dominants" I do realize that there are just as many wanna-bees on either side of the fence and therefore am very cautious who i give my contact information to. I am not very "book smart" but am not an idiot either. I have come to understand that many people have different views about what a slave is or should do so would like to throw my two cents in and explain how I feel about the matter as I feel it is important to show what I am looking for. slavery hinges upon a commitment to obedience. The slave does not revisit issues such as "should I submit?" or "How do I feel about that? Will I say yes or no?" When a dominant order is issued, whether or not the slave agrees with it, obedient in the same manner that a soldier is who has enlisted in the Army. person gives themselves over to the control of another as completely as is humanly possible. This means not only a high degree of obedience, but that there is actually a chattel property context to the relationship. I refer not to a legal relationship, of course, but to a mutual understanding of ownership and property status that arises between the parties. While both slaves and submissives are often fondly referred to as "property", in the sense of consensual slavery the slave becomes literally the property of the Owner a slave cannot say "No" without completely abrogating the very basis of the Master/slave agreement. A "No" from a slave is a terminal deal-breaker in a way that it is not for a submissive. One analogy I offer is this: a submissive is like an employee in the workplace, who can protest directives and hope to resolve conflict with management (the dominant). A slave, on the other hand, is like a soldier who, if she disobeys orders, has put herself in a position of mutiny with much more dire consequences to her relationship to the military (the Owner) than if she were a civilian disputing a less-controlling authority. The military cannot function if command authority is questioned, and neither can a Master/slave relationship The above is not exactly my words but are my true beliefs

10/30/2013 11:23:11 PM

Out for an extented period again not sure when this one is coming back or even if she will. While yes the search is still on there is just to much on this ones plate right now to be able to worry about internet access (to many hours away from computer to justify $50 a month on internet) and this site isnt exactly library computer friendly. This one wishes everyone the best of luck in their searches and hopes that one day will be finished with hers.

8/29/2013 2:04:40 AM

Been a while since this one has been on the site. Have had a lot of pressing issues within this ones life which has pulled her away from her search for a long time. Would like to apologize to anyone who may have messaged this one during her months away as mail retention was only set to 6 months and have lost all messages. It has been a long road but time to get back to this ones search and find the One who can claim her. Hoping that this site will hold the answer but is also aware not to jump in to quickly as there are still a lot of wanna-bees on both sides of the fence. Looking forward to reading and responding to messages/ getting to know some of You out there.

2/17/2013 1:13:21 AM

I would like to thank Everyone who has taken the time to write to me. I am in the process of returning messages but do respectfully request time to respond to the numerous messages as I do not have a lot of time to be on the computer each day at this time. ThankYou all for Your patience and understanding.

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