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| D/s should not mean that either a Domme is disrepected because She happens to be a Domme or a submissive disrepected because he happens to be a submissive.
Many of U/us have had to have the courage of going against convention and/or norms to interact with others in order to be able to fulfill this part of O/our natures.
There are women who respond to submissive men as though they are not 'real men' or treat them as sub-human.
For my part D/s is just the full realization/playing out of emotions that already exist, it's and acknowledgement of how things are.
To all 'pure' heterosexual women with the 'real' men, how many times have you felt like disciplining Your man so as to get proper control of a situation or improve things? But You can't because You are in a 'traditional' relationship?
My experience of a relationship is that ultimately the female is in charge or it does not work, same with family - the lady has to have ultimate authority, and the man has to respect that authority.
None of this means that a man should not take responsibility or have any authority at all or be weak etc. In so far as a man can successfully relate to a woman or obey Her will he has to be strong.
And the will of man to submit to a woman intimately is to rejoice in and worship Her power as something beautiful and something to acknowledge fully and openly in his love and appreciation for Her. He acknowledges her power and being as a woman by submitting to Her - this is how he shows her how he much he loves her (his ultimate way of showing his trust and appreciation for Her). And i know no greater way of showing love, trust and appreciation other than through the act of submission. But then maybe that is just because i am submissive.
i have a tendency to be raw vegan and love health, fitness and life in general, which means zoos, animal parks, theatres, travel, vegan restaurants, art, good music and sport.
Hope You having a good day.
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