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If you message me and all you provide is some random command and tell me I should obey, then you are obviously seeking a robot. Please contact M.I.T. as they are smart enough to design you a brainless, obedient slave. |
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Since learning this L/s people watching has taken a whole new turn! I know look at people and wonder what their kink is. LOL
Is that wrong? |
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Sleep is a lost cause at the moment.
I log in and browse through the journals and sometimes I just think yadda yadda yadda..... complaints about all the fakes...yadda.. yadda. .. yadda
Why give those that have done whatever they did to you that much power over you? Do you think they care that they lied, or scammed or whatever? Trust me they don't.
Kill with kindness .....it leaves them defenseless and your dignity still intact.
Just my thought. |
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Now to balance it, a few things I love.
1. The smile on someone's face when I know I have pleased them.
2. Courtesy and manners.
3. Bear hugs. Those are the best!
4. Laughter
5. A message on here that I open and it's unique. It shows personality.
Just a few of my favorite things. |
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The following are things I CAN'T tolerate.
1. Married - if you are married or in a committed relationship more power to you but it doesn't work for me. Thank you to the men on here that are at least honest about it.
2. Verbally and Physically abusive. To belittle me because you have to "prove " your power is just childish. However, if you own me and we are being intimate and you call me your dirty little slut....well that would just add to my excitement ; )
3. Alcoholism.
4. Disrespectful or rude behavior. I look at simple things. How you treat a waitress or store clerk for example. It says a lot about you.
5. Liars.
There maybe more that I can't think of at the moment, but those are basics. Everyone has baggage or a past. I'm about one of the most empathetic people you will meet and will listen if you need an ear. I am not perfect and do not expect it from others. However, basic human behavior would be nice. |
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I have been on here a few days. I realize that I'm new and I am learning. With that said, it saddens me at the amount of negativity on here. I know there is good and bad in all groups, but I would think that in this "lifestyle " people would be more considerate and less critical. Those that want to play games or be mean does it ever cross your mind that the person you are acting this way towards has feelings and is human. Whatever anger issues you have does not need to be held against complete strangers. Masters/ Doms/Dommes by definition are looked at with a sense of control, but that does not mean swearing and rudeness adds to that persona, in fact it takes away from it. Subs/slaves have it in them to please by definition, but that does not make us weak or incapable of standing up for ourselves. We just need to remember to be respectful. All of us do. We do not to give others ammunition to be rude. To do that is to engage in their immaturity and in turn lower our own self image.
I am not a goody two shoes and don't bow to you because you are Dom and think I should. I am human who has had enough experiences to know that at the end of the day I want to be a reason someone smiled as opposed to being the reason someone felt bad.
Just my thoughts. |
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I'm NOT a male posing as a female. If that is what you choose to believe that is fine, but sending me a message full of rudeness and hate does not upset me. It says a lot about you. I'm not engaging in a verbal battle. My grandpa taught me as a small girl that you can't argue with stupid. |
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