I am beginning to recognize an interesting thread of arrogance in many of the responses to my profile.   Almost all of them begin with some sort of demand - for photos, for webcam, for phone contact, etc.   Not a suggestion or even a request - a DEMAND.   I wonder what causes this?   Are the gentlemen on this website just naturally rude, or is because of what I am and what I am offering?   Does that maybe stimulate aggression?  Perhaps it does, and perhaps I am being tacky in commenting on it.   After all, if males were not brutal and aggressive, who would want me?

I don't understand myself; how could I hope to understand a male?

April 7th - I have now had a profile posted here for 2 months and have learned a few things. Not absolutes, but things that at least tend to offer clues about people who reply to my profile:

First, people who call themselves "Lord" this and "Sir" that are apt to be caught up in a fantasy and not fully living in the real world,

Second, gentlemen who use terms like "OMG" and "TY" and "U" as substitutes for words strike me as trying to be teenagers.   I can almost understand this in space limited places like tweets, but not in emails or even in chat.

Third, people who push me for nude photos during a first chat are apt to be just jerks looking for a cheap thrill.