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I'm in a vanilla marriage with a family and I do my scening in secret - occasional play when I get the chance. Does that seem really bad? It feels bad sometimes, but that's the situation, and I've digested my guilt, pretty much.
Maybe I can make this profile a bit more effective for me to find someone to play with as well....
I was asked today to define my ideal dom. So I said...
Compatible views and values - a guardian reader would be ideal Someone around my age, or a little bit older.Someone who wants to have sex. Safe sex. Very important to me.Someone local Someone who takes BDSM seriously. But not too seriously.Probably a dad. I don't mean a 'DADDY'. Just someone who has had that life experience.Someone masculine ('do you mean macho?' he asked me... So I said... 'no I don't think so. It's hard to know what these words mean to different people. Not macho, but not someone effete, or effeminate. But if they were intellectual and artistic I'd be all for that! Just someone masculine...')Someone who knows who he is and has a fair idea of what he wants.
That's what I said. Afterwards, I thought of a couple of extra things, like:
Someone with nice gear. (clothes pegs and British Airways sleep-masks are all very well, but leather and steel are much more impressive)Someone who wants to spoil me and pet me as well as torment and humiliate me.Someone a bit crumpled, who will understand and not mind about my own middle-aged crumples.Someone with a place to play
Well, that would be the ideal dom for me right now. Is it you? If so, please do drop me a line. If you're nearly my ideal that might be close enough.
Picture assures response.
Picture of *you* I mean (only please no cock shots. Love cocks, hate cock shots! Call me old fashioned)
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