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	Hello everyone, am more a sensual D/switch. I enjoy the dynamic as well as the kink as this is the whole person. Below is more about how I approach a dynamic and understand each and every dynamic is in itself unique it is the responsibility of the D to understand and acknowledge the needs of the s. I hate all labels and feel each relationship whether for play or lifestyle bring change and something different to the table. i am very firm and demanding but have a good heart. Submission is not about getting yourself off, it's not about doing something when it's convenient, it's not even about looking for compliments. It's about pushing your own pleasure to the side and focusing on your Master until you get pleasure from doing so. Submission is surrender built on a foundation of trust and communication. It's the erotica of the mind and body being caressed, excited and controlled. BDSM is not purely sexual in fact it may not even be sexual at all, therefore I am open to a woman's sexual orientation. What I am interested in is her mind and the relationship we can build for mutual satisfaction and enjoyment. I enjoy all aspects of the lifestyle from a more gentle servitude all the way to sadism and humiliation. >

11/8/2012 6:11:21 PM

Treat her as your own flesh, command her as her lord, cherish her as your helper, rule her as your pupil, please her in all things reasonable, but teach her not to be curious in things that belong not to her. You are the head, she is your body, it is your office to command and hers to obey, but yet with such a sweet harmony as she should be as ready to obey as you to command, as willing to follow as you to go before, your love being wholly knit unto her, and all her affections lovingly bent to follow your will.' - King James

5/9/2012 2:06:20 PM

...A dominant man will be very interested in you, and not just your sexual needs (though they will certainly get his attention). He will see you as a puzzle, and desire to make sense of that puzzle. The dominant guy loves challenge and that in essence is why so many submissives find disillusion in the vanilla world; most men do not seek challenge in sensuality, they fear it. Submissive women are the most challenging of lovers for they have great fantasy. Their fantasies often require a man to move far outside normal gestures requiring both skill and creativity. How you think about a myriad of criterion will be of great interest to him..