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ABOUT ME: I am 5'8", 185#s, and have brown hair, hazel eyes, and a strong athletic build. I am friendly and outgoing which take the edge off of my driven personality. I also see the positive side of things in life and tend to gravitate to friends and partners that share a similar outlook. I grew up in Southern California, but lived in Texas, Florida, and Louisiana in my younger days when I was a military pilot; but I moved to New York 7 years ago to further my finance career. Because I am no longer young, I do not consider myself to be cool or hip; but I do have a cool sensibility. Therefore, I appreceiate style and hipness as long as the oft accompanying superiority and attitude are checked at the door. I have always been drawn to smaller dynamic women; so my female partners tend to be friendly and outgoing as well as petite or lithe and owning the compact sexiness of their tiny curves! While I am partial to brunettes, I am actually an equal opportunity guy when it comes to my partner's race and hair color because an emotional and intellectual connection is what I look for and value in a relationship. For similar reasons, I do not confine my interests to women of any particular age group; so while most of my partners have been close to my age, I have had mature relationships with partners ranging from the early 20s to late 50s who have possessed the qualities I desire. I am open to a casual or secondary relationship, but I do desire a serious primary relationship that could include both of us exploring polyamory and non-monogamy as long as we both desire to come home to each other in the end. Even within this fairly open context, I believe in love and how it can draw two people together in such conspiratorial intimacy that the world around them disappears--THAT is the kind of primary relationship I seek! And for love, long distance is generally not an obstacle to me. ABOUT YOU: I am seeking a female partner that possess (more or less) the following qualities: an eager submissive yet playfully defiant, a mentee but self-sufficient, a tease yet wanting to acquiesce, outwardly innocent but privately provocative, worldly yet with a sense of wonder, a damsel in distress at my whims but a partner in crime toward others, my love yet my sweet little whore and slut in private, and my little Princess but still 100% woman and all that entails. Essentially, a dynamic woman that I am sure exists as I have glimpsed and sampled the likes of her before. KINK INTERESTS: I am into pretty much anything as as long as it does not involve dark or sadistic motivation, needles, cutting, or real harm. But, within these limits, my interests have been observed to be very kinky. Yet, if I had to narrow down what I am into to just one thing, it would have to be anal. I love anal play and experimentation in all its forms. I just find it naughty and intimate to share such a private thing with a woman--especially with the kind of partner I desire. The following blogs help describe a lot of my D/s and kink interests: 1. www.submissivetosir.tumblr.com (the submissive's reluctant eagerness and interests seem just right, although some of the depicted scenes are bit extreme for me). 2. www.foxytail11.tumblr.com (the submissive and her escapades are spot on). 3. www.extremefoxytail.tumblr.com (the submissive and her escapades are spot on). QUOTE: "It is always easier to ask for forgiveness than seek permission." Grace Hopper, Admiral, US Navy, who was once the oldest serving officer in the US Navy and a female to boot, a renowned mathematician, and who unfortunately has now passed. MUSIC: Punk (e.g. Sex Pistols and Suicidal Tendencies), Pop Punk (e.g. Green Day and Linken Park), Grunge (e.g. Nirvana), Ska (e.g. Specials and Madness), blues (e.g. BBKing and Kebmo), classical guitar, and classical. MOVIES AND BOOKS: To Kill a Mocking Bird, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Sixth Sense, Twelve Angry Men, Matrix, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, Reservoir Dogs, anything with Cary Grant or Audrey Hepburn, anything with aliens, Poe, Techno Thrillers (e.g. Clancy), Hard Science Fiction (e.g. Aliens not Fairies), Classical English Literature, and popular theoretical physics. KINK LiST: And finally, here are some of my kinks taken from my FL profile under the name crashits: INTO (HAVE ACTUALLY DONE): manhandling (giving), "a little fight in you. i like that." (everything to do with it), "c'mere sugar, come sit on my lap" (giving), "go to your room and wait for me" (giving), "i want to cum all over your pretty face" (giving), "slut" as a term of endearment (giving), "spread your ass cheeks and hold it open!" (everything to do with it), "you belong to me" whispered in my ear (giving), 1 girl and lots of guys (everything to do with it), a big white cock in your ass (giving), a house with a white picket fence and a dungeon in the basement (everything to do with it), a long deep kiss with a mouth full of my cum (everything to do with it), a pussy full of cum (everything to do with it), a woman who likes swallowing cum (everything to do with it), an arched back (everything to do with it), anal beads (everything to do with it), anal sex (everything to do with it), ankle restraints (giving), asian submissive woman for white men (everything to do with it), asking for permission to cum (everything to do with it), ass play (everything to do with it), ass to mouth (everything to do with it), ass worship (everything to do with it), bare bottom spanking (giving), bare handed spanking (giving), begging (everything to do with it), begging to let me suck your cock (receiving), being a slut for older men (receiving), being bratty until you get fucked into submission (everything to do with it), being called a dirty little fucking slut (giving), being fucked with a hand on my throat and threats being whispered into my ear (giving), being more complex than an anonymous list of fetishes could show, causing people to have to actually converse with me, finding out if they like *me* and not just what gets me off. (everything to do with it), being ordered to 'spread your legs' (giving), being told i'm a good girl (giving), being treated like a beautiful princess but fucked like a dirty little whore (everything to do with it), being used as a slut (giving), being used as a whore (giving), blindfolds (giving), blow jobs (receiving), bondage (giving), breast/nipple torture (giving), bukkake (everything to do with it), butt plugs (giving), chained to the bed and used as a fuck toy (everything to do with it), chains (giving), chivalry (everything to do with it), cigars (everything to do with it), clit spanking (giving), cocksucking (receiving), collar and lead/leash (giving), communication (everything to do with it), consensual nonconsent (everything to do with it), cuddles (everything to do with it), cunnilingus (giving), daddies who are both gentle and very strict (giving), deep throating (receiving), dildos (giving), dirty text messaging (everything to do with it), discreetly fingering me in public (giving), exhibitionism (everything to do with it), eye contact while making love (everything to do with it), fighting back even tho you know you cant win (receiving), fingering (everything to do with it), fishnets (watching others wear), french kissing your ass (everything to do with it), fucking at a concert (giving), gagging her with her dirty panties (everything to do with it), gentleman by day, pervert by night (giving), girls in summer dresses (everything to do with it), girls who masturbate then lick their fingers (everything to do with it), golden showers (everything to do with it), hair pulling (giving), handcuffs (giving), having a sweet and innocent facade (watching), high heels (watching others wear), humiliation (giving), independent women who yield to strong men (receiving), inspection (giving), intelligence (everything to do with it), kissing (everything to do with it), kitty tail anal beads (everything to do with it), making her wear her butt plug in public (everything to do with it), mutual masturbation (everything to do with it), my head in your lap, you playing with my hair (giving), nipples (everything to do with it), older men (giving), oral sex (everything to do with it), otk spanking (giving), pain (giving), pantyhose/stockings (watching others wear), power exchange (everything to do with it), proper grammar, spelling, and punctuation (everything to do with it), pubic hair (everything to do with it), pull my panties off and fuck me hard (giving), restraints (everything to do with it), rimming (everything to do with it), rough sex (everything to do with it), scent (everything to do with it), sex in public (everything to do with it), sitting on daddy's lap while he whispers dirty things in my ear (giving), skirts with no panties (everything to do with it), small tits (everything to do with it), spanking (everything to do with it), spreader bars (giving), strap-ons (everything to do with it), submission (receiving), talking dirty (everything to do with it), tearing off clothing (everything to do with it), teasing (everything to do with it), threesomes (everything to do with it), tongue sucking (everything to do with it), toys (everything to do with it), treat her like a lady, fuck her like a slut (giving), watersports (everything to do with it), wearing high heels while getting fucked (giving), whipping (giving), young sluts and much older men (everything to do with it). CURIOUS ABOUT (HAVE NOT YET DONE): anal hooks (giving), anonymous bareback or creampie (everything to do with it), being blindfolded, tied down, and made a party favor (everything to do with it), candle wax (giving), double penetration (giving), fisting (giving), gangbangs (everything to do with it), japanese bondage (giving), rope bondage/suspension (giving).
iammabs
 
 Age: 29
 Bronx, New York