Hey everyone, I am a big teddy bear,kind,goofy,sensitive. I am that quiet guy that everyone is happy to see, I am very sarcastic and spontanious. I am loving life and am very happy with how things are going.

I stand 5'9", I am 30lbs overweight, my ideal weight is 210lbs,I have brown hair I shave my head to keep the receding hairline gone lol. My heart is made of gold and is ready for a attractive lady to come and make it glow. My attitude is strong, I do have one and I know how to use it,But does not mean I am a ass. I know how to handle this crap life can throw my way and I stay on top no matter how thick it gets, I would like a woman who is strong,not weak but not strong to any standards ,just strong enough to stand up and fight for what is worth fighting for,and not letting drama drag them down. I truly hate dealing with drama and games but as I realize it seems like it is everywhere, drama is in our lives by no choice it is part of life but playing games is by choice, trying to beat around the bush for a answer when you should just come out and ask the question. I find it very respectful when someone can just say or ask what is on there mind.

Now you are probally saying WOW what a different approach to a dating profile,well I am not going to "sugar coat" anything, I am not going to try to write a perfect lil' story/life that I do not have trying to trick someone into believing you are "perfect" No one is perfect,life the way I want and I put me first always but if there is a significant other I would not ignore there feelings or needs I will just make sure there is security/love/respect/affection/loyalty and I have found that security is not a ton of money, I am not the richest man, I am not a guy who will try to buy your love or respect, I have manners and if I do meet someone and fell in love with them, flowers and cards and a occasional teddy bear is always remembered but those are gifts from the heart and you need to have my heart for that.

I love music! I have a large array of tastes,maybe not the top 40 but I like older rock ,older punk,some newer stuff like nickelback and three days grace, I really enjoy Bad religion and Social D. A great summer night is at my favorite beach with a couple of good friends sitting on the rocks talking and watching the waves crash over the rocks watching the stars glisten and the smell of the ocean,I love it.

Now with that all said you have a better understanding of me. I am looking for someone that can let my fetish come out, I like to be dressed in womens lingere(body suits,garters/stockings) and be tied up and be controlled (I love going down on a women,but what man does not? I cant get enough of it when I am able to be with someone) and I am a switch so vice versa. I have never really explored the bdsm society, always kept my likes hidden, I have only found two people in the world that understand my fetish and have been great. I am sick of the main stream society and dating scene and figured I would try this and see what might come about. Am I approaching it completely wrong?? can someone give me some advice on how to write a better profile?? I am a very real and honest person,I am very respectful of everyone I meet.

So if you have read this far Thank You for taking the time,please message me if you have any advice on how to write a good profile or if you would like to make a new friend. Please no negative or nasty comments,that is just not needed