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lilsubme

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Personal photos provided via text or other chat service, not on this site.

I am naturally submissive in my private relationships but that is not noticed by the casual observer but is noticed by those who know what to look for. I seek to be of use and not a burden. I have the resources and the inclination. I am also very skilled in all things domestic. This is not about sex to me. Actually I am sapiosexual. This is about being allowed to express my submissiveness with others. It is about having friends that accept me as I accept them. I have a strong femme side. I do not want to be a woman. I simply admire many of the feminine traits and am naturally in touch with my own. For me, just being allowed and encouraged to be myself, and serving in a manner that pleases, humors, entices and enhances is what I seek and I would be profoundly grateful for each and every moment allowed. I adore being controlled. Dress me, bind me, enforce your authority. Yes that means even while not in your company. Serving and learning is really what matters most to me. I feel like I am bisexual but I have never experienced it. I am not clingy, nor a pest. I am not the jealous sort. I seek to enhance, not complicate. I seek to serve. I seek friendships with subs and Dommes alike. Most of all, I seek the One.

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11/5/2016 5:06:20 AM
Pet Peve(s):

- People who start a profile on this site but never fill it in.
- People who state that you must be local but do not even give a hint as to their locality.



1/29/2016 5:05:01 AM

Yearning

Come back sweet butterfly!
You dance this garden so little
and the whisper of your wings
teases me
with the promise of your touch.

Petals unfurled
Stamen and pistil bared
nectar seeping
seated
open and awaiting your touch.


1/29/2016 5:03:10 AM

Morn'

The rains have washed away yesterday,
and some of what was before.

The new dawn brings crisp cautions and renewed air.
There can be new beginnings.
There can be healing.
There can be hope.

But scars remain.


9/16/2015 6:58:20 AM
It seems to me that the natural flow of establishing a D/s friendship is much the same as establishing any other friendship:

We talk ----> have similar interests, goals, share photos and confirm identity
We meet---> Coffee, lunch, drinks etc: enjoy witty discourse, establish trust, share life         stories, and communicate well

We agree to meet again for events, playtime, vanilla or D/s activities...

Then, if it feels right and that magic begins to happen a friendship can become more, or maybe not.




8/15/2015 12:04:12 PM
It is so disappointing to me that most so called Dommes on this site are really Financial predators.  At least the so called Fin Dommes and Pro Dommes are up front about it.  
I am a generous and giving submissive, but I do so because I want to, because the situation warrants it, because I see a need and I have the ability and inclination to help.  Because there are no strings attached. 
Please don't make my buying you something or paying your rent a condition for even starting to get to know each other.
I would rather have no conversations with Dommes than to be led on only to find out that there is a fee involved.
Once money is demanded that puts the sub in the position of customer and even worse, the Domme in the position of servant.


7/27/2015 11:27:54 AM
I recently have began to indulge in exploring hypnosis as a form of being controlled.  I find the idea exquisite.

6/26/2015 1:50:58 PM
Honestly, I am at a loss as to why the Domme/Doms that contact me assume that I am less bright than they.  Is this a result of ego?  Is this an assumption that is common among dominants?  I may never know.

To be clear:  I am submissive.  I just am.  When I am with someone I like and have an eye for them, that is just how I am with them.  That is how I want to be for them.

What I am not is unwise, inexperienced, self loathing or low esteemed.

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Jesibel
 
 Age: 27
 Milton Keynes, United Kingdom