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~submissive whiteboy seeks Dominant Latina Princess~

Hello to all Dominant Latinas J

i am a submissive whiteboy seeking Someone very special; Someone with specific interests and a willingness to understand who i am, what i seek, and why. i may sound too picky, but i KNOW what i like; i feel i should be honest and not settle for less. i also feel that my self-awareness and willingness to express what i like is a strength that any compatible Princess will appreciate, so here it goes…

i am 33 years old and live in Phoenix, Arizona. i am 5’8”, 150lbs, and have long brown hair and brown eyes. i am attractive, intelligent, sincere, creative, talkative, explorative, and fun to be around. i am a professional musician who has been very fortunate to make a successful living doing what i love. In no particular order, some of my hobbies include music and concerts (of course), traveling, hiking, anything outdoors, sports (mostly SUNS basketball), interesting conversation, D/s, and exploring life in general.

So, what do i seek? And why?

Now, i know that what i seek (actually, i should say ‘Who i seek’) is very specific. Most likely, several Latinas will fit this description. Out of those, a few will hopefully contact me. From there, i hope to find a special connection with One who i can explore D/s with.

But why a Latina?

Well, to start with, i should explain my evolution as a submissive. Since i can remember, i have always found demanding and bitchy Females to be intriguing; and for the last few years, i have worked hard at discovering and understanding specifically what it is that i desire and enjoy, and what makes me respond to a Domme's wishes.

For example, one thing i have learned is that for my complete submissiveness to come out, i must find my Princess utterly enchanting beyond words. She must be intelligent, attractive, and possess certain qualities that captivate my interest and attention. i believe that if a Princess wants a highly intelligent and creative submissive, she must understand that such a boy would easily get bored unless She was highly creative and intelligent herself. So, after realizing that, the next step in my journey was, ‘what do i find enchanting and captivating?’ That led me to discover that Latinas really push my buttons.

But why? Simply put: i love Latin culture; i LOVE Latin accents; i love the skin color, the eyes, the hair, the body curves…

...i could go on and on, but the bottom line is, i am charmed by everything about Latinas. Of course, i am also enamored by Dommes, so naturally, a Latin Domina extracts my submissiveness easily and completely.

Reciprocally, i hope to find a Latina Princess who is intrigued by a submissive whiteboy. :) hehe

Now, what qualities should She possess? Of course, physical attraction is important, but i find looks and age to be secondary to psychological qualities. This also brings up a good point about my D/s philosophy...

...For me, i find that submission, control, and sensuality is primarily psychological; if You cannot have power over my mind, You cannot control my body. So, she must be creative. She must continuously exert Her demands on me. She must KNOW She is a Princess and She must use Her feminine sexuality as well as Her Latina mannerisms to intoxicate this whiteboy into complete submission. Her accent, Her 'Latin lingo', and Her bitchiness are all things that will make Her ‘lil papi’ melt to his knees.

OK, so why do i use the term ‘whiteboy’? Simply put, i am very responsive to One whom i consider my Superior; if i feel that She has put me in my place, i completely surrender - and deep down, this is what i long to experience.

As far as my D/s interests, i am extremely open and would enjoy exploring my Princess' interests; however, You will find some of my interests on the left of my profile. My hard limits are no underage and no blood.

Now, there is another aspect of my ‘finding Her’ that makes me more unique yet; nonetheless, i do believe that my Princess will understand that life places us where we are.

So, You must also know that i am married, however, my wife is fully aware of my 'seeking'... she is not interested in D/s and has different sexual needs. This has caused us to explore our sexuality separately. We have mutually agreed to open our relationship and seek out fulfillment of our ‘other needs’.

Since You are probably curious, no, my wife is not Latina; and again, yes, she is completely aware of my interests and this ad, and yes, You can verify this with her if You feel the need. Needless to say, i feel lucky to have a wife who understands my desires and supports my search for a Latina Princess. Currently, my wife has a boyfriend; however, i am not involved with anyone - hopefully this ad will change that. :)

Now, although i would prefer to meet Someone local, i know i am limited by my specifics; So, i am open to getting to know Someone long-distance both online and over the phone. i can see U/us developing a friendship while exploring the D/s dynamic. Since i see D/s as primarily a psychological activity (even when in person), i believe i can have friendship and exploration with someone online/over the phone. Then, if there was a serious connection, i would be willing to make occasional trips to be with Her in person.

i know my total honesty may turn most people off, but i believe in being up front and honest.

So in conclusion, what i seek is Someone who would like to explore a D/s relationship - RT preferably, or online/over the phone. Most importantly, She must be Someone whom i enjoy talking with, sharing with, and hence, exploring with. She would be Someone who will bring out my most submissive qualities and Someone whose life i can enrich with my friendship, creativity, and servicefulness.

Well, if You are still reading this, You are probably one of the VERY few. Please message me and hopefully we can chat online and see where it goes.


i have recorded an audio greeting so You can hear my voice. Also, if there is an interest, i am happy to share more pics. The reason i have not posted a face pic in my public profile is out of respect for my wife - she doesn't need her friends/coworkers (if by chance they are on collarme) knowing about our personal life. i hope You understand.

:) lil papi :)

KissLickBite
 
 Age: 40
 Bay Area, California