Just a quick note to say Thankyou to all those of you have sent lovely messages of encouragement, advice and interest as well as the flattering comments its nice to know that some of you do take the time to read profile and journal entries.

also several have sent messages asking if I am only looking for Uk based Dom answer to this is YES online seemed safest option to begin with as was a way for me to understand lifestyle a little more and what i myself am looking for but having spent some time chatting to a variety of people over time I have realised the only way to really see and understand if this is for me is direct contact actual meeting

anyway thats enough for now just wanted to say Thankyou to those who have sent messages that i havent gotten round to replying to yet

kim x

Is it easier for a dom/master to find a sub?

It always amazes me how so many say communication is key to a dom/sub dynamic yet communication cannot be kept up .

why go to the trouble to make contact then back off ???? timewaster? poor communicator? or just that there are plenty more subs/doms out there and your spoilt for choice?

mmmmmmm collared sub or a mute one which is easier?

kim x

Username YesNow (i dont usually name but ...) rudeness and someone taking the piss i think

my profile is clear as to what i am looking for any further information if i wish to share i will with the right people.

mmmm why is it some men revert back to little boy tantrums (a message from an older man because he recieves no reply in ...13 mins starts accusing of being a timewaster)

If you are randomly sending messages you should never expect to get a reply

I am a Genuine Person willing to explore my submissive side since being on this site i have spoken to a few people who have been helpful with making things clearer for me and helped me get a better understanding of exactly what I am looking for Since my initial joining when back then i was looking for strictly online i am now looking to take the step forward and add to the online with realtime meets but ONLY once a form of relationship has been built and trust between us.

I am in a relationship and am looking to explore by submissive side aside to that relationship my partner does NOT know so discretion obviously is a big factor.

I cannot Believe how hard it for a younger female sub (wannabe) to find an experienced MATURE master.

anyone i have spoken to i have been honest with throughout .

I do realise for the real people here that its a case of weedling out the scammers , players, and time wasters but please dont treat everyone that way or you could just miss a genuine opportunity.

today i was asked to prove i was who i say i was by phoning a person , seriously if i was a genuine scammer or a guy pretending to be a girl i would jus ask a fem friend to make the call and that would proove....NOTHING

This person then went on to be abusive and acusing me of being a male because i wouldnt call him , i am not wasting mine or anyone elses time with unnessary chats if its possible we could not be compatible as you know yourself you can usually tell early on when chatting to people wether you click or not.

In other words guys who wanna try and be pushy No means NO

 I am willing to prove who i say i am and have done with a few that i have spoken to from here willingly

kim x