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I am currently looking for mentors or non casual play partners only. I am recently out of a long term, intense relationship and am taking time to find myself again. However, with that being said there is a need that needs to be fed at times. I am not looking to submit to anyone outside of a scene, but during a scene I will submit to that person I have built up a relationship of knowledge and trust.

I am not looking for online with the exception of the time to get to know you better. Please do not request virtual scenes with me.

I'm sorry if you have emailed me and have not yet heard anything. I will try to get back. I just didn't expect the number of comments to my profile. I don't feel its particullarly interesting so I'm feeling a bit over whelmed.

5/31/2009 9:52:32 PM
First I would like to thank those who have read both my profile and journal entries.  I am planning on working my journal a little bit more to give those the opportunity to know me better.  I do tend to go to those who contact me's profiles and read their journals in return.  Words and how they are put together say so much about people.

Secondly, I have an family emergency and will be away for up to the next two weeks.  I will be checking my mail upon my return or if able to while I'm away
5/20/2009 10:04:15 PM
So there are two common requests that I continue to receive via email communications.  The first is for a picture.  I guess perhaps I need to find a way to take my picture without telling the world exactly how I look.  I know physical characteristics is a huge part of attraction and just saying I look like this may not be the best approach.  I do struggle with how do I put my picture up without being noticed when I walk outside of my home.  I will think about that.

The second request is for me to share a little bit about myself.  To me a person is who they are at this moment and who they have the potential to become.  The potential is not a dream.  To me its a combination of things one does to improve who they are and to be true to themselves.  Its also how those we meet influence how we grow and respond.  I find this second part particularly important in a D/s relationship. I do not believe someone can simply mold another being into exactly the person they want.  I do believe that with patience and time and togetherness we slowly grow into that person yet hold onto our own individual traits that make us who we are.

Just the thoughts of a girl
5/18/2009 1:55:25 PM
Where to start.  As noted in my update I'm feeling very over whelmed by the number of people who contacted me.  As well I really don't know where to start.  The person in side of me says that in order to feel good about myself I need to answer every email.  I'm finding that impossible right now.  So I'm thinking perhaps I should start with those who put a little bit of effort in at least reading my thoughts. 

To me a dominant will learn as much as they can about the person they are interested in.  The recognize that over time changes occur in both themself and that one.  So with a new relationship potentially forming I think this is a very important and crucial quality that I seek.

Just a thought,
Just a girl
MizBuffy
 
 Age: 22
 Council Bluffs, Iowa