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	liefdeminx


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	What am I doing on collarme? Well socializing and keeping up with friends, as well as looking for a Master. I have gone through a lot of self realization lately and its led me to understand some greater truths about myself. First and foremost, that this lifestyle is for me and I don’t intend to ever leave it. I just need it way too much. I am a mouthy masochist that has a sick, twisted and very sarcastic sense of humor. I am hoping that my future Master will have a similar sense of humor with an appreciation for mine. I have a lot of different facets of myself, some demonstrated more in the “nilla” world and some more in bdsm. I want a Master who wants to embrace them all. A few things to know about this ideal man of mine, number one he must be able to be open minded and accepting. I have kids, a full time job, a social life I like to enjoy along with all the other tid bits that make up me. I want to be able to build from the ground up with this person, no poof instant Dom! I want a friend, a lover, a family-minded man, a Master and a sadist. I want someone who can provide structure for me and maintain it. I can be the Queen of Loopholes and if they are there believe me I will find them. Consistency is key! I am not looking for the “weekend Dom” or someone who calls themselves a Dom but requires more training than most submissives. I would like to find someone who has been in the lifestyle for more than five minutes and knows their way around the spanking bench. I know, I know I’m asking for a lot but i have high expectations as i'm sure you do too. I need someone who will call me on my bullshit and keep me in line but also be sensitive and understanding about my needs and foibles. Physically I’m attracted to tall, strong men. I’m more than aware that regardless of a man’s stature he can probably hand me my ass but I want to feel small next to my Master in all ways. I am looking for someone local. I am not interested in long distance relationships period they just don't work for me. I am also not looking to be someone’s second girl. I consider myself an alpha type personality and I don’t do well being told what to do by those who don’t own me. If you are looking for another girl to add to your collection I don’t think I would be a good fit, unless you plan on putting me in charge of the rest of them when you’re not around. And on that note it should be understood that i serve my House as their alpha submissive and i am very happy in that role. Lastly, there is something about a Dom that knows their power and ability that just makes me melt completely. I want a man who knows himself inside and out, knows what he wants out of life and how to take it. I want to be with a man who is willing to break me and build me back up. I have a lot to offer to this right person and I am sure he is out there. If you are interested send me a message. ~minx

6/27/2012 3:51:56 PM

Excited for the weekend! Woot :)

6/26/2012 3:36:19 AM

Trying to delete one photo and deleted all of them grrrr.... now it won't let me upload a new one. Really?!

6/14/2012 9:06:54 PM

Sleepytime for this girl *yawn*

Yep embracing my "little" tonight LOL

6/13/2012 9:14:48 PM

Thanks for the compliments on the red hair, but i had to go back to my natural dutch girl blond. Just couldn't fight nature lol

6/8/2012 10:33:56 PM

"every pleasure's got an edge of pain, pay your ticket and don't complain." -Bob Dylan

6/1/2012 3:08:53 PM

Just because i view Your profile doesn't mean i am necessarily interested *eye roll*

Subs perv on other people's profiles too!

5/28/2012 9:35:52 AM

Okay this is a friendly public service message to those of a Domly persuasion:

Bad manners are not a sign of dominance, the most respected Masters and Mistresses that i know in my local community are respectful and kind. They would never dream of throwing Their proverbial dicks around, real or strap-on, and demanding anything of a submissive that They don't own. A real Dom is quietly confident in His or Her abilities and is a Master of themselves first. And above all doesn't throw hissy fits jeez....

5/27/2012 9:33:03 PM

Am realizing that this site is very "bottom" heavy *sigh*