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Seeking LESBIANS ONLY (35-55 years old). For those who somehow don't understand what a lesbian is ... it's NOT, "I prefer women" or 1 of those "gone gay" situations. Looking for an honest, trustworthy, sincere, intelligent, loving yet strict Domme for a mutually monogamous D/s relationship and life partnership ultimately. In case it needs to be clarified, a R/T live-in situation but not 24/7 as far as D/s goes. The D/s dynamic would always be present without ever needing to be said but, in the real world, living such a life isn't possible. The two main reasons being: such a lifestyle isn't accepted in general and ... I, for one, can't be "actively" submissive 24/7. One needs to be permitted to just relax and live, aside from the lifestyle, at times. Unable to relocate with the exception of in Ontario only and, ONLY if you live in the country and in a nicer home than I already have in the country. *smiles* Looks aren't of paramount importance (I'm no Cover Girl - soft butch more like it, cute ... maybe, depends who's looking I guess). Of course the physical attraction needs to exist for both but I do find intelligence, a great sense of humour (wittiness) and confidence to be most attractive. That, a great personality, kind heartedness, the willingness and ability to communicate openly and honestly AND if you can cook too ... I'm in love! *grins* Oh right, I am the sub here and ... I can cook. But, truly ... food is a way to my heart. If it's not apparent already, I'm seeking more than the usual ... Domme "uses" sub, sub puts up with whatever. I have lots to offer and I'm seeking a loving relationship as well as a very experienced Domme who is also looking to fall in love with Her submissive. If this part of the equation isn't something you desire, I wish you all the best finding her. I am very honest, extremely loyal, willing to commit completely to Her when She finds me. On the other hand, I have had more than enough experience to know that my time is just as valuable as your's and I do not suffer fools lightly. I insist on speaking on the phone within a VERY short time of initial contact to PROVE you are female. At such time, I must call you since I do not own a cell phone and you most likely do. Two to three initial emails to establish mutual interest and then if you're not willing to speak on the phone, sayonara. Am also very adept at weeding out all the fakes and wannabes so don't embarrass yourself by playing games. I also have Skype but will not video chat UNTIL enough trust has been established. If we chat on IM (I only use Gmail and only after phone verification), again ... just because you're a Domme, that doesn't give you license to disrespect me and my time by taking forever to type your replies during an IM chat. If your typing skills aren't decent, don't even suggest IM'ing in the first place please. For such Dommes reading this that are not my style: "abuse isn't domination", "disrespect isn't becoming a Lady" and well, you get the picture. TRUE domination doesn't require yelling and screaming, intimidation, threats or otherwise. On the other hand, "if" You can captivate my mind with Your's, doing what most haven't a clue about ... REAL psychological domination (mixed with love, tenderness and mercy when You see fit) ... I'd be forever YOUR'S.
SunGoddess
 
 Age: 23
 Salt lake, Utah