Perhaps you’ve played for years, and know your preferences well. Perhaps you have never played before and are nervously excited to explore this side of yourself. Either way, you should know a bit about Mistresses.

Its My Preference to build you up rather than tear you down.Why would I want to keep a useless toy? Rather wants to help you develop, to grow within your service to Me, and become the best slave, toy, pet, or sub you can be. In this way, you become more valuable, and much more prized.

I will paddle you until your bottom is black,I will cane you until the red and purple welts are too many to count. Never, ever will.I will push you farther than you want to go, do damage you cannot recover from, or deliberately harm you. If you are experienced,I may push your limits, and if you are nervous and new ,I will hold your hand and lead you gently.


Your only responsibility here is to be open and honest, to tell your limits, and to invoke your safeword should you ever need them.I will treat you with kindness, and require respect in return.

What goes on beyond that is a constant discussion of dreams, desires, fears, and boundaries. We will build a bond of trust, without which one cannot play.


Come, beg permission to serve me.


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