One can easily sit down and 'design' a supposedly interesting profile to attract the hoards but inevitably nowadays the thing ends up constructed from merely cliches and facsimiles.

Blind shallow lust for the most part tends to dictate that conventionally, a carefully placed eye-catcher is exactly that and the intended target eye lurking somewhere out there will see what it needs to, when it needs to.

Bait therefore easily set. Prey already captive. Such is the scheme of things. At least conventionally.

However. consider for one moment how many times, if ever, the initial but sticky hollow assumption of 'reality' and the expectation of The Dream based merely on a clever use of words alone or a photo flash of what was physically on offer turned out to be actually worthwhile.

If such a thought seems depressing then the upside to such disillusionment may well be that you learned from the mistakes.

If that's so, you're already of interest to me. I like the experienced...

In a similar way, if you underestimated the realities of BDSM and D/s or M/s when you took your first physical steps into it - or you have yet to do so - you're also already of interest to me. I like the naivety of the inexperienced...

In either case, feel free to message in a mature and hopefully intelligent manner.