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Hetero Female Submissive, 40,  AskMe, Iceland
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Helpful tidbit if you identify as a conservative or think Donald Trump is a good guy, we probably wont get along or have much in common.

While I am submissive, Im not a slave. My submissiveness is ingrained and is as much a part of who I am as is my eye color. There is a middle ground somewhere in between strict protocol and bedroom-only, and thats where I belong.

BDSM is sexual for me, but Id love to find someone with whom I can explore the mental aspects of it as well. My experience thus far is limited to one brief Ds relationship, but Im remarkably open-minded. Far more so than the average person. )

Ideally, Id love to find a bisexual or heteroflexible Dom, but know those are difficult to find, so Id be thrilled to find a man willing to share me in other ways. I am bi-curious, but have only a modicum of real-life experience with women, so it wouldnt be accurate to label myself bisexual.

With the right partner, I am highly sexual and sensual, and crave daily play. Ive been referred to as a cock-whore, and the term is quite accurate. Not being allowed to satisfy you orally would be a punishment for me. I yearn to find a partner who accepts, understands, and encourages the darker side of my need to please you, need to be used roughly, to feel pain, to be pushed to my limits, and to embrace the emotional release gained through these things.

That said, Im searching for a relationship that balances vanilla with kink. If we arent compatible beyond shared sexual appetites, theres no foundation upon which to build a strong relationship. Partnership is what I seek. I am unabashedly feminist and will NOT mesh with a man who doesnt understand and respect my ability to be both submissive and a mans intellectual equal.

I thrive in a structured personal environment in which I know the boundaries, and tend to be drawn to dominant men who have a Daddy Dom mentality, though this is flexible. In return, my nature is giving, pleasing, loving, loyal, open-minded, and Im typically referred to as sweet. However, please do not mistake sweetness for being emotionally weak.











 Submissive Female



 5' 7"






Actively Seeking:

Dominant male

Switch Male


 Lives For:





 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales






 Hiking (Beginner)





 Breast Play


 Being Massaged

 Hair Pulling

 Massage (Giving)

 Sensation Play

 Role Playing




 Vibrators (Expert)

 Arcade Games

 Board Games


 Historical Shows

 Horror Movies


 TV News

 TV Sports

 Web Surfing






 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics

 Political Activism


 Alternative Music

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Nineties Music

 Rock Music



 Ice Hockey



 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Bar Hopping


 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining

 Going to the Opera


 Musical Theater


 Horseback Riding







 Anal Play




 Clothing Selection


 Card Games


 Comedy Shows

 Online RPGs

 Puzzle Games

 Romance Novels

 Science Fiction


 True Crime




 Cross Stitch




 Online Auctions








 Cuck Options


 Country Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Folk Music

 Hip Hop Music



 Opera Music

 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music



 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes





 Auto Racing


 Body Building



 Horse Racing









 Domestic Service

 Housework Service

 Masks (Wearing)

 Online Chatrooms


 Blue Grass


 Curious About:

 Renaissance Faires


 Martial Arts


 Scuba Diving


 Canes and Crops


 Electrical Play


 Genital Punishment

 Local BDSM Community

 Fire Play



 Medical fetish play

 Mental Bondage

 Modern Primitivism


 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Control


 Outdoor Bondage


 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Sensory Play


 Suspension Bondage


 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax Play


 Role Playing Games


 Body Art

 Candle Making





 Soap Making







 Kick Boxing



 Sky Diving


 Street Hockey






 Eye Contact Restrictions

 G-spot Service

 Speech Restrictions


 Libertarian Politics

 Heavy Metal Music


 Corner Time

 Maid / Butler Service

 Conservative Politics

 1950s Lifestyle

 Female Sovereignty

 Hard Limits:



 Erotic touch

 Gas Masks

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