ok..met a couple...we played for a 2 months.... lots of fun...tased all both had to offer after proper testing....in the end they wanted a poly household and essntially swinging..not my thing.....i neeed to serve with my whole being..not just an organ or two

i believe that the nonsense, bs, posturing and outright lying for the lions share of the members of this site, has one its battle with real people wanting to be in an exchanged power situation.

I am one of many real sub men who is real, have served real time, and wish to again...hwoever, i find there to be far more fake  so-called Domme's on this site than than "playa' subs.

i enjoy real games bewteen people in a dynamic..not games to mess your wallet only......

im getting rather bored and angry with this site. far too many "Domme's" with the send me money complex...i have no issue giving gifts to the one i serve...for its a person i care deeply for..i want to please them...give to them..just to make them happy..but the whole..send me, and dont you dare question it...before i even know you is absurd.

people forget that at its core..power exchange IS a relationship...i have to know you before i can please you.....

is it truly possible for a real sub, such as myself, serve without the hope of an orgsam..ruined or not????? i mean, i believe that the role of a sub is to please his Mistress, but we need to be real in that it is a sexual thing. i do not believe that the Mistress sexually please the sub...but the orgasm is the real basis or servitude..to please someone so that they want you to reach climax...for their benefit, your humiliation..whatever....no?

is it possible to LOVE the BDSM community..specifically the FemDom side..and hate it just as equally? if so..i am there..frustration and lack of fullfillment abound

excuse me for being rude, but WTF with all the BS about..send me money or buy me a gift to talk to me...if i am serving, about to serve a real and true Dominant Female..its my pleasure and fun to give a gift......

a gift---- is generally a surprise, and one that is given out of true feelings, not from a demand

demandinjg a gift....makes you a professional, which is cool....but not lifestyle, and certainly not as a precursor to able communication.....

here is a thought....yes im chubby...and i have a small penis.....I can lose weight..the penis thing..i cannot do anything about..its not like a flat chested woman who can get a minor surgery and boobilicous.....so..while i enjoy the verbal taunting at times..its something i can do much about......

im a sub male. a submissive male does not, despite some perspective, equal a moron. I too can take a models pic and place them on collarme claiming to be a Dominant female, and claim that in order to talk to me, you need to send me a gift/tribute..no you will never meet meet me...forget about any mutual satisfaction....just send it..moron.

All you wannabe losers claiming to be a Domme..actually disrespect the Real Dominant Females. the ones that a man such as myself, would give gifts for the sake of pleasing MY MISTRSS.. you know the ones that she never would ask for, yet i want to give out of love and respect.....