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If the mental dynamics of CMNF - Clothed Male, Naked Female - scenes appeal to you. The commands to remove pieces of clothing one by one, having them removed from you, perhaps even cut from you.... if that does things for you, we are very much on the same page and should talk more. |
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I wrote the following three years ago. It still applies:
I see all sorts people here calling themselves intelligent yet with very little evidence of it in what they write. Similarly lots of submissive ladies who say they want an intelligent dominant man without the evidence they have the intelligence to return what they seek.
So here is a test if you seek intelligence and think you are intelligent: write a message to me explaining what you mean by intelligent, how intelligence applies to what you seek from your submission and what you think shows your intelligence.
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Due to a quirk of search today a dominant lady appeared in my feed today. Her details are interesting:
"Female Dominant, 32"
"Very experienced with over 20 years in the BDSM world"
So she started when she was 12?....
Do Social Services know I wonder?
Perhaps think about what you are saying before committing to writing?
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Note for males contacting me about cuckolding - it may or may not surprise you to learn many men have this as a fantasy but have never actually spoken to their wives about it. To avoid us all wasting our time, I shall expect an early contact with the lady of the couple to be sure you are all genuine. Please do not be offended, I am not questioning your honestly, just giving you a way of setting yourself apart from the others. |
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I know CS is not the most reliable of media, but yesterday it did not work at all on my PC, and today just refuses to send pictures. Am I the only one suffering? |
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One sends a polite, amused response to an obvious joke profile and one gets this response:
I am only pretending to be desperate and frustrated, but you truly are.
I do think some people need to lighten up a bit. |
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Today's rant - the term "Alpha" as in "Alpha Male", "Alpha Female" or even "Alpha sub". It is a ludicrous appropriation of a term from behavioural zoology and anthropology and even there it is a pretty discredited phrase. It gets even worse when it is part of one the common moans one sees here about people not being "True Dom/Dommes/subs", most of the time it just means the writer has huge preconceptions of what they (the writer) think a particular person should or should not be or do.
Dominants and submissives come in all sorts, shapes sizes and genders and often adopt different roles in different situations. We are not Gorillas or Wolves, we are a complex social animal with very dynamic and interacting hierarchies. Explain what you are, what you want and try not to all back on meaningless terms from cod science. |
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I am back, but with little expectation of finding those elusive intelligent, assertive submissive ladies who want to connect the minds as much as the bodies. Will someone prove me wrong? |
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A stream of English written entirely in lower case. The letter "u" used constantly instead of "you". The usual confusion between "your" and "your're". "Of" used as the part tense of "have". No punctuation at all.
Not a newly discovered lost work of James Joyce, just a typical profile of someone on here describing herself as "intelligent". |
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Sigh. Very occasionally I respond to messages from guys wanting to explore hypnosis and/or their trans side. I did today and part way through exchanging details when I explained I could not actually talk on the phone for a few days (but was okay to then), I get the following message:
From: TantricObedience
Dated:
6/17/16 5:42 PM
Yeah guessed that you're a small DICK PATHETIC faggot LOSER FAKE
I leave it to the reader to consider the irony of someone who wanted to explore sexually with another guy using the word "faggot", and whether you want anything to do with him either. |
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It is amazing the number of sexual racists there seem to be on this site. I only look at profiles of women (and sometimes couples) but it shocks me how many mention race in their list of wants or nots. A significant number of people seem to want "only white men" or "no blacks" while at the other side we have those only interested in BBC (not a broadcaster, but Big Black Cock in the jargon).
I am a white guy, but I am pretty sure if I were black the idea that someone only wanted me because they perceived I had a huge cock because of my colour I would be quite insulted. Especially if I were a less well endowed black guy. Even worse are the profiles that pretty clearly buy into the whole idea black guys make women "bitches" and implicitly treat them in a certain way.
Sure this is a kink site but try and look past your preconceptions. I am sure there are white guys out there, some of whom are probably well endowed too, who will "make you his bitch". I am sure too there are quiet black and Asian guys who will show there dominance in an altogether different and more cerebral way.
Just so you know - I don't care what colour your skin is, what country you were born in or what your ethic background is. What matters is what goes on between your ears - the rest will follow if that is right. |
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You expect weird people on here - it's virtually the site's mission statement. What often surprises me though is how many dull people there are here. However interesting your kink might be - and frankly few of them are that interesting - it does not make you interesting. A poorly written profile listing lots of things you want and don't want does not count as interesting either.
Mr Grumpy's rant over for the day and on with the quixotic task of trying to find intelligent and interesting fellow explorers of the outer reaches of kinkland. |
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A hint to those who use fake photos and keep generating new profiles almost but not the same as old ones full of clearly not real fantasies - just don't bother. It is way too obvious, sometimes the photos are clearly ones circulating elsewhere or have huge giveaways like supposedly being in the UK but posed in a room clearly in a different country. Little things like the type of light switch or power socket give you way so often. Even if they don't it's amazing how quickly a Google image search will find you out.
Just don't bother, it's sad and certainly doesn't fool me. |
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I see all sorts people here calling themselves intelligent yet with very little evidence of it in what they write. Similarly lots of submissive ladies who say they want an intelligent dominant man without the evidence they have the intelligence to return what they seek.
So here is a test if you seek intelligence and think you are intelligent: write a message to me explaining what you mean by intelligent, how intelligence applies to what you seek from your submission and what you think shows your intelligence. |
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No pleasure has any savour for me without communication.
Michel de Montaigne |
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50 Shades of Grey. It's everywhere and I have noticed a certain tendency for members of the "BDSM Community" to decry it and the people who read it. Well don't. I know it's not great literature but it does give an excuse for people to explore an area they may never have done before.
If any "Mummy Porn" readers find their way here let's be nice to them - you never know they may like it and stay. |
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Just to clarify and avoid all doubt, I am dominant. My interest in meeting Dommes is that I find dominant women interesting and it would be a meeting of equals.
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