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kinkykitty6161

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Fair warning Ive been told this profile sounds a bit snobby. Im assertive and clear about what I want - if that sounds cheeky to you, were not a good fit.

While I am a natural submissive, I allow only a chosen few to see that side of me. And what sweet relief it is to hand over my power to another, to submit completely and fully, and to experience the immense trust and deep satisfaction that comes with Ds.

I was trained extensively by two Doms and served each of them for several years. Totally lucked out on that. I was just looking for kinky sex and pretty much fell into BDSM. I came to this rather late in life and it is unfathomable to me how I lived without it.



The most important lesson Ive learned is that Ds is so much more than the sum of its parts. Of course pleasure is lovely and Ive learned that pain can be equally satisfying but the fusion of pain with pleasure is something that is SO much more powerful and erotic than either alone.

Im seeking someone who can meet at least twice a month. I need a Dom who will take me in hand, who will train me slowly and carefully to be what He wants.

I prefer an experienced Dom who is steady, reasonable, reliable, clear with his expectations, and willing to negotiate so we can both meet our needs. I like a gentleman Dom who leans more toward the al than the casual side but Ive never had different so who knows.
Id prefer someone whos older...not interested in men younger than 50. Im flexible in terms of how sexual the relationship is - none, some and lots are all ok once trust has been established. I keep my Ds relationships separate from my vanilla life so if youre looking for a full-time mate, Im a poor choice.

Im relatively obedient out of the gate but at some point will likely attempt to top from the bottom. Its tricky getting the independent me out sometimes but that can be corrected pretty swiftly by the right person.

I have zero interest in humiliation, 247, slavedom or cleaning your damn house. Had all that when I was married, thank you very much.

Im a) well educated, well mannered, and have traveled more than many, b) physically fit and people tell me I look younger than my years, c) 420 friendly and a moderate drinker but dont require either of those to play - theyre certainly not a deal breaker. Im truly happy most of my waking hours. Im not emotionally damaged nor will I ever be a doormat. And while I might come off a bit al at first, once I let you in youll see the kooky little girl behind that facade.

My ad says Im straight but Ive had several trysts with women, always with men involved. Not truly bisexual...just comfortable with a few red lines.

I like to email a bit before agreeing to meet but Ive decided to meet a little more quickly than I have in the past. If the click is there, I think well both be able to tell over a quick coffee. Wannabees and fakes tend to no-show so the weeding goes a little faster. -)

This is a bunch of me, me, me. Tell me about you, you, you. Im happy to share photos if it seems like a good match.

My profile used to say that I didnt pursue out-of-state relationships but this process is like finding a needle in a haystack. If youre willing to travel here or bring me there...

Sorry - I do not accept or respond to chat or friend requests.






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3/23/2018 1:45:21 PM
A little bummed that the software this site uses for journaling won't let me post a photo.  I clicked on someone's profile today and was greeted with a photo of a handsome adult man beaming at me in a very kewpie-like fashion. Alas, I cannot share.


4/21/2017 10:50:53 AM
I know there's a fetish for pretty much every single thing in the world, but this is a new one for me:   "How bad do the mosquitoes get there? Ill pay you 1800 dollars if you take me out where there real real bad. Tie me up remove my pants and leave me out there 2 hours before sun down till 3 hrs after the sun sets."  

3/13/2017 7:19:31 PM
Great email today from someone who claims to be a 36 year-old male sub in Australia who looks at least 65 in his photo: "Are you disappointed that Colorado Medicaid no longer funds routine infant circumcision??"  Extra points for weirdness. 

3/1/2017 1:57:37 PM
In general, the people who contact me here are polite but occasionally I get a random message that makes me scratch my head or laugh out loud.  Gems from today: 

"u talk a lot," (that one's fair enough; my profile is certainly wordy),
"Fair warning; you're an ASSHOLE. That's why you can't find a man...," (funny!)

 and...
"give me your bleeding cunt." (wha?!)

Definitely more entertaining than the one word, "hello," messages. 

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liljenjen
 
 Age: 18
 Ask me UK, United Kingdom