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	So here's the truth... I'm a dominant person. I make the things that happen in my own life, in my group of friends, and in my relationships. But what's unique about me is that I'm also a masochist. In other words, you can whip me and abuse me—and I'll probably love it, but don't expect to control my life or my finances or, if we have a relationship, yourself. My love of endorphins is THE reason why I've gone from listing myself as a sub to a switch and sooner or later will be changed to Dom. I'm a confident bastard with no esteem issues. In fact, I'm probably better than you. I'm more attractive than most guys I know... (at this point you're like, 'well he doesn't look fit and hot', and I'm like 'well yeah, I enjoy beer and food too much' so you better not complain there.) Sure, I'm not model hot, I'd rather not be thanks, but I make a lot of girls blush just by catching an eye and giving a wink. And believe me, they're looking. I deserve a stunningly beautiful girl, (but don't necessarily adhere to societal standards of beauty.) I'm smarter than anyone I know. No, seriously... my interests are extremely diverse and I've read a lot about all of them. I've aced college tests through pure reasoning without attending more than a few lectures. And if you're wrong, I'll let you know. (I can be a stubborn asshole) I make an active choice to live the most exciting life possible. Some people who don't get it call my a playboy, a party guy, a non-serious fellow... but those who do know me understand... I just don't give a fuck what others think. Along these same lines, I've been known to book Vegas trips the night before leaving... or to take a getaway on a whim. 'Want to take a drive?'...'Sure, where to?'...'Oh, I dunno, how about Los Angeles? or Yosemite? or Tahoe?'... I keep a weekender bag packed for a spontaneous getaway at all times. No Joke. At work, I'm 25 and I've co-founded a company. We sold the company a year after starting our main product. I know the technical details better than anyone. This isn't some bullshit online jewelry store, this was and still is an engineering company. Along the lines of my interests... I am an engineer by training, I've formerly worked with laud in entertainment and design, and I've studied enough psychology to be your shrink... [or your manipulant ;) ] And just for good measure I've also got an awesome singing voice... (as one girl who heard me said afterwards... "Which curtain was the big black guy with the deep rich voice behind?") Speaking of black guys... let's just say what's hanging can please you. I get three compliments from pretty much every girl I've dated: 1) 'I like your watch' (or style/outfit in general) 2) 'You smell good' (it doesn't matter… w/cologne, just deodorant, or natural I still get it) 3)'Wow, you fill me up." (if you know what I mean) So what am I looking for? Well... A beautiful girl of course... but this girl must be unique. I would expect total devotion. I would expect a desire and willingness to please. And I expect to be listened to and obeyed. The bottom line is that if you want to live an awesome life with me, you can... but there's a cost. ;-) What's your first instruction? Send me a message telling me if you like what you just read. ...and understand... I pay attention to details. P.s. If you enjoy football and hockey in particular, I deserve to know sooner rather than later.

1/4/2010 1:16:47 AM

Since people seem to be confused by my message, let me clarify. I have nothing against honest pro-dommes, the fact of the matter is that so many scammers have found a place here that there's no real way to tell the difference here between a scammer and a honest pro. Perhaps CM can create a tag for Pro-Dommes so they can be identified as such to deter fake scammers from posing as normal people

If you find any domme asking for tributes please do report that profile. There is a button for that. Then select scammer. http://www.collarme.com/personals/scammers.htm Please read scam 8, CM does not support tribute dommes. If a lot of people report a specific profile, CM deletes the profile. It helps to weed out all the tribute dommes, helps all the lifestylers to find other lifestylers faster. Quite frankly, pro-dommes you can take your business to professional bdsm websites which are out there in plenty. Do not network here, we are tired of searching through pages of pro-dommes to find that rare lifestyle domme. Please try to put this up in your journal if you can. Let's make Collarme better. Enough is enough.

Most common scams:

Scam #5 - Duping you into purchasing paid services

These scammers will feign an interest in you and then send you a link to website or a phone number (not necessarily a 900 number) where you will be required to pay a subscription fee to see the scammer's profile, see them "on cam", or speak to them on the phone. Of couse, these scammers work for the companies in question and are collecting a profit for every 'sucker' they can get to sign-up for their paid services.

Scam #9 - Requests for "tribute"

This scam is typically perpetrated by persons (male or female) claiming to be dominant women. Commonly, the scammer will claim that they are inundated with messages and that you need to send them a "tribute" (money) to prove your sincerity before they will speak with you further. Typically, but not always, they will request that you send the money via an Amazon Gift Certificate. Not uncommonly, once the money is received, the scammer will stop responding to messages or delete their account. So, before sending anyone 'tribute', remember that your only reward may be a lower bank balance.