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"Yea, many there be that have run out of their wits for women, and become servants for their sakes. Many also have perished, have erred, and sinned, for women... O ye men, how can it be but women should be strong, seeing they do thus?" --Esdras
Is there a match for me out there? Someone who is sharp, witty, well-balanced? Cultured and educated (not necessarily formally educated), with a zest for life, a sense of adventure, and a desire to make the most of the time allotted on this earth?
This profile describes a person with a strong submissive desire. I have been exploring submission for about 15 years. This exploration has included a wide variety of activities and in general I'd say I'm very game to try new things, very open-minded about exploring, and have very, very few hard limits.
I am strongly motivated in my exploration to find a strong dominant who is seeking a total power exchange type lifestyle relationship. One that incorporates strong control by the dominant, including punishment, ownership, cruelty, and humiliation.
At the same time, I am a complex person with aspirations and desires. I have a career that I want to continue. Have made an attempt to build a life for myself that includes friends, family, involvement with hobbies, and roots in my community.
And while I want a strong, controlling, and dominant partner, I also want a friend and companion. Someone with whom I can share a great deal, including a mutual love. A person who challenges me intellectually, with whom I can have a lifelong conversation that remains fresh and new.
Are these things contradictions? Can I have them all?
Personally, I tend to be a bit shy and retiring. I enjoy conversation, fine dining, reading, golfing, travel, the usual. I'm single and have never been married. I live alone and work as a sales engineer. I have 15 years experience exploring BDSM.
Though I would only relocate under the most extraordinary of circumstances, I am willing to consider those who are at some distance from me. I am of course willing to help someone relocate to me. I can easily travel such distances on a regular basis and am willing to do so early in a relationship to demonstrate my sincerity.
Also, I'd say that while my search is primarily for a long term relationship with a dominant (to me, she could certainly be a switch or submissive with others...) woman or possibly transgendered person, I'm also very interested in meeting all sorts of people for brief interludes, ongoing scenes, and friendship.
Pictures available by request.
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