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	Myself, I have been on and off this site a few times and have now returned to my profile once again to find the right match. My experience in the lifestyle is wide and varied and it has some twists and turns to the story...but then again, most good stories do. There has been the vanilla relationships in between...some better than others...but in the end most of them lack a certain passion....desire....lust...that can only come with an obsession with this lifestyle. That is not to say that this is the only thing I do, as I do have a life, interests, work, passion, in other areas. I believe that you can be in this lifestyle and still get coffee like a normal person. What I am looking for...that might be a bit abnormal....or at least different... I am looking for someone that is very different. It is true, I am into certain kinks and that is why I would contact someone, as they may meet these kinks. Overall, I am a Sadist, that enjoys this and many other aspects of the lifestyle. A person that is real, that wants so much more out of a relationship....out of the lifestyle. A beautiful blend of many kinks and explorations. Some harsh, some wild. In the end having something deeper than the normal relationship. I am looking for someone that can fill this need, lust and desire...a person that is willing to make the effort, one that has the same passion for life as I do. There is more to the lifestyle than just the obvious.

3/31/2013 7:47:09 AM

Over the time I have been here, I have never entered a Journal Entry....now, I am compelled to do so, as I have seen so many profiles say the same thing. I find it odd that those that are looking, in particular females, complain about so many messaging them...I get it, there are a few real females out there and so many men, real or not, that are jumping on board as soon as they sign up....but seriously, it might be a pain to go through them....that is part of searching...but it is also a good thing to have that many to at least choose from. And if it is a complaint about "real" versus "not real", the females should take a look at what other females are posting...

Relocatable....but only in the same city

Relocatable....if you give me money

Relocatable....I am married

LTR....online

I want a Master....not really, just thinking about it

Or...a one line profile, the many generated fake profiles, the cam girls, no profiles, and so on.

It is something to think about when you are complaining that too many people are interested in you...and it takes more than one minute to sift through the profiles and messages. It does make me ask, how serious are you about finding the right match if this is the case, if you are not prepared to look for the right long term match.

Most people, in any lifestyle or in their life, fantasize about things...a different profession, a hobby, a sexual act, etc. It is not just limited to this site or to this lifestyle. The hard part is sifting through all the noise and finding the real ones that are ready to do it...that have an open mind, and more importantly...an open heart.