I’m a soft spoken, well educated and a reserved person. I'm firm and fair. I’m dominant but not aggressive I hope you get the difference. I desire to get into someone special’s head and control her mind rather than just the body. Mental Bondage is the ideal bondage. The special person will be cherished for who she is and what she is.

Respect, trust, honesty and integrity are vital for a LTR. The relationship D/s or M/s or whatever name you want to call it by has to be based on needs & wants, in that she needs me and I want her. Without me, she is incomplete and without her, I'm incomplete. We mesh to form a complete circle without any edges. I don’t want to break anyone down. I want the best for both of us. I want her to grow with me. It isn't all about me but also all about her. She walks with her held high as my partner and is also proud of who she is and how she makes me feel and the other way around too.

I’m looking for a monogamous and non masochist person. Age, color, race are not a bar. What I seek is the soul, mind & heart and not the skin. I limit myself to RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)