I enjoy being active in the local BDSM community, and i love finding like-minded people that i can be myself with. I am respectful to all I meet but I seek to be submissive to just one. Are you that one? I am eager to explore and learn. I am not a pain slut. I find control, dominance, submission and bondage, and the the physical and mental challenges that acompanies them much more appealling. I like to go beyond the sting/thud of the flesh. I am however currently learning just how deep and intense i like my thud....

If youre interested in a scene or play, please be aware that I'm not interested in casual sex hook-ups. I'm NOT seeeking play partners but a relationship. I dont share well nor do i wish to be shared. I love sex, but there needs to be a deeper meaning attached for me. I have learned much about myself over the last two years and gained some valuable insights, such as needing a D/s commitment between me and my Dom. Both of us need to share the same core philosophy.

Nothing gives greater joy than those moments serving my Dom to the best of my ability. To look up into his eyes and know that I've brought him joy. I am not high maintance. I do have expectations and certainly some hopes, but i am not bratty or petulant. i may pout but im never difficult to soothe. I grow best with love, care, support and patience. An occassional punishment might be necessary but i thrive more on seeing the pleasure i bring you when i do my best.

I partner carefully and must know all relationship parameters. I'm seeking a strong, trustworthy and wise Dominant who knows his strengths and weaknesses. You are a tall, single, male Dominant, between 40 to 55 years old and living in SW Florida. You are intellectual, and enjoy communication and conversation with your woman. You are financially secure, emotionally competent and require control of your woman. I admire dedication, loyalty, perserverence and motivation.

I need guidance and teaching. You must be strong enough to correct me without breaking my spirit. You need daily interchange and frequent physical contact. You need your woman's physical presence, just as I need my Dom's touch.

If you capture my attention, all of me is within your reach. I am loyal, never lie or cheat. Sounds simple, but many cannot handle untarnished truth. If my viewpoint offends you already, move along now and save us both a wasted time. I speak my mind, but can reel myself in for the right person, and the right reasons.

I am resilient, determined, creative, educated, eclectic, quick-witted, impetuous, intriguing, sensual, passionate, yielding and playful. I'm 46 years old, stably divorced, Caucasian, mother of two teens. I'm physically fit and amply endowed. My hair changes color with the seasons and my eyes are big, blue and wide open.

I am not a lazy sub. I work hard in all areas of my life including my career, my family and my friendships. I have a Masters Degree and hold several certifications in my specialty. I have a professional full-time job that I love. As the provider for my children and keeper of a home, I'm not looking to relinquish my job, seeking to support anyone, or seeking support.

I am a shoe addict. Shoes represent power. I can't pass a shoe store without at least looking. The pair I choose on any particular day tells you the viewer a detailed story of my mood and desires. Shoes hold strong meaning for me and they must have meaning for you as well. I also love nylons, nail polish and short skirts.

I have a busy schedule and you must see this as positive. I spend some of my days off at the beach or by the pool. Water soothes, comforts, re-energizes. I am more centered hearing the surf in the distance. You must be able to understand the connection I feel to the water. Some of my hobbies include fusing glass, wire-wrapping, reading and cooking. I dislike painting, fishing, tomato soup, and rude people with myopic viewpoints.

I seek someone who is a friend, lover, and dominant; you are educated, confident, skilled, a consummate professional and well versed in your field. You are strong in your convictions, a master that invests time wisely. You are in total control of yourself and your surroundings. Your house is not a mess, nor is mine. You grasp why you must be tall enough so I can wear my heels, and still be shorter than you.

I am not weak or without an opinion. If You want a smart, strong and successful submissive. One with her own version of your quick mental ability, and precise manner of listening and articulating, I might be of interest to you.

Please No married men, Gorean or poly households.

Write to me and take my breathe away